Do You See What Happens When….

you drill too much!

I have been known to drill my children a time or two. Okay I’ll be honest. I drill them all the time.

  • before breakfast
  • in the car
  • during lunch
  • before math lessons
  • when dad gets home

Somehow I just feel better when I ask them questions about what they should know because I can see that they are listening and learning. The same goes for chores. The boys have had the same chores every day for over a year and I constantly ask them task by task if they completed everything.

I had no idea that my constant drilling was a “bother” to my oldest son, Gevan until he called me into the family room and told me to sit down at the computer. I questioned him as to why I was sitting down at the computer and then without even thinking jumped into: “Did you clean the bathroom yet? Did you wipe the counter, clean the mirrors, clean the toilet…”

“Shhhh, mom!” he said to me. “Just watch this.”

This is what I saw…

Please ignore the discoloration of the boys commode. It have used Comet, bleach, and every other cleaner known to man on it but remains the same. It needs to be replaced. It is as old as the house and my house is old! Hey, maybe we can use if for a science experiment! Any ideas?

I was rather amused by the videos but I must say that I much rather drilling him. After all, by drilling him I would have no idea that he dropped my toothbrush into the sink before he cleaned it. Somethings are just better left unknown.

Bottom line: drilling works and CVS regularly has sales on toothbrushes. I’m off to go there now!


Amy Bayliss is a 4th year homeschooling mom to three boys. She enjoys writing about the eclectic teachings that bring a glimmer of curiosity to the eyes of her sons. In addition to being the Co-owner and Director of Development for Heart of the Matter, she writes for Internet Cafe Devotions. Be sure to visit her blog, In Pursuit of Proverbs 31 and her family’s homeschool blog: Integrity Academy.

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Giveaway: Alone With God – Bible Study

**The winner is Renae at Keeper at Home

Bible Study is a big part of our life at the Bee Hive. We do Bible study at our small groups Sunday night, Bible Lessons in our classes at church Sunday morning and Wednesday nights, and we read the Bible most mornings as a part of our school. We have always used a devotional, too. In the past I have been involved in most of the home bible study with the children, but I started to feel as if they needed time to study alone. My son has recently told us that he wants to be baptized and study with the youth minister at our church, so I feel like it is time to let them step out on their own faith and gain some deeper knowledge of God’s word that isn’t spoon-fed to them by mama.

When told about Karen Mohs (author of ‘Hey Andrew, Teach Me Some Greek’) Bible Studies for kids, I was thrilled to have the kids try one. One of the mistakes I made was that after offering to review it, I decided that we would do the study “together”. I figured if all of us were doing the study, it would make it easier for ME to review it. That definitely wasn’t the best way to accomplish a study with “Alone With God” in the title. You would think I could have figured that out up front.

My children have been in war mode lately. Maybe it is just their ages? They are 9 and 11. Hopefully it is a phase they will outgrow?! It seems that any time we do chores or school they seem to find things to fight about. This Bible study, unfortunately wasn’t the exception. Monday through Friday they fought over who would read the Bible study book and who would read the Bible. The Bible study is set up so that you are supposed to do Monday through Saturday, but we always take Saturday off from school and didn’t do it on that day. When we did use it, they had sour faces and poor attitudes. Mom did, too – because I was upset at them for theirs. Our beginnings with the study did not get off on the right foot.

Then, they started to loose their place because they weren’t “consuming” the workbook. Since both of them were doing it, I asked them to write their answers on paper instead of inside the workbook. That was another huge mistake. My son is notorious for not writing his name, page numbers, or dates on anything. So there was more than one day that they did the same lesson over again due to poor record keeping.

Starting Over
One day in a particularly hostile moment, I asked them to start the study over. “WHAT?” they protested. I told them that they needed to have a proper respect for God’s Word and to stop turning Bible time into a battle. I gave them a new mandate… Fill out the consumable workbook and do the entire study ALONE (but do it out loud so we could hear it). That meant one person was using the workbook and the Bible… one person was doing the writing and the reading. The only difference was that we were doing it together by listening. This worked much better and the study began to take on the shape that I feel the author intended.

Saving Time and Ink
Previous to using this study I had gone through different chapters and written my own questions out – but it took up so much time that we didn’t do it as often as we should have. I’m thrilled that Karen Mohs has taken the time to sell an affordable product that offers personal Bible study for children. It saves me time and ink – all the secretarial work I would have spent producing my own worksheets one by one. It is nice to have these studies that are done for children so you don’t have to make them up as you go.

Specifics About the Study
With each day the children were to review their memory verse, pray and ask God to help them understand His Word, and do between 2 and 5 questions that are taken from scripture readings. The portions of scripture studied are small and easily digestible for kids. There are also “think and pray boxes” where the author shares some insight she had when writing the study and asks the children to consider these things and talk to God about them. There are thirty-nine weeks for this study if done as suggested. I Can Study 1 Samuel Alone With God makes for a wonderful curriculum to add to your Bible reading and gives mom time for her own study while the children are in God’s Word. My children really are enjoying the study and I think they would be learning and enjoying it even more if it truly were being done “ALONE” as the title suggests.

Final Opinion
When we finish this book, I think I’ll invest in another in the series and purchase TWO books so that each of them can have their own “alone time” with the Lord. I think it is a great idea to inspire children to set aside time to honor the Lord apart from their parents at a young age. Another positive thing about these Bible studies is that she doesn’t share a whole lot of personal doctrine or commentary – she sticks very closely to the scripture and asks the children to think and pray for themselves. I think Jesus (who spent quite a lot of time ‘Alone with God’ while He was on Earth) is completely in approval of this type of product. I hope it continues to bring children closer to Him and give them the ability to stand on their OWN faith – not tag along on their parent’s. We are looking forward to our next Karen Mohs Bible study.

Sprittibee (Heather)has been homeschooling for 6 years and has one crazy husband, 2 crazy kids (ages 9 and 11) and 2 crazy cats. When she isn’t making Tex-Mex, learning web design, teaching the kids, or rubbing her face on the cat’s belly, she loves to blog. Heather reminds us to stop and smell the proverbial flowers on this journey we call homeschooling. Not every day will be a great one. She admonishes us to learn to focus on the beauty of the moments God has blessed us with – for better or for worse – because our hearts are shaped by the memories we are making.

We are pleased to offer one blessed reader the chance to win a copy of I Can Study Esther Alone With God – KJV Version. To enter the giveaway, simply leave a comment below. Comments will be closed Friday, October 3rd at 10pm EST and the winner will be announced on Sunday in our new weekly newsletter. You can sign up by entering your email address in over in the right sidebar.

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Happy Birthday, Andrea!!!


Happy Birthday Andrea, from all of your sisters here at Heart of the Matter. YOU ROCK!

Please stop by Andrea’s blog and leave her a birthday comment.

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Featured Homeschooler: Jane

Please welcome this week’s Featured Homeschooler Jane from Prairie Girls

Tell us about your family.
A family of four: mama of two wonderful daughters and the happy rib of my Sweetie for 15 years.

Bookworm (14) is our over-achieving perfectionist. She loves reading, farm life, and preforming — violin, theater, and history re-inactments. A painting in the book, “Amber on the Mountain” best depicts her…wearing a prairie dress and reading a book while riding her horse bareback.

Ladybug (11) is our “girls just want to have fun” girl. She inherited a double portion of her mother’s wacky sense of humor. An animal lover extraordinaire, who is a fun-loving girl of action and non-stop play, yet surprises me with her culinary skill and dedication to teaching herself piano.

My dear husband spends his weekdays at the office of a Fortune 500 company just to bring home the bacon, but much prefers being outdoors — an avid (bi)cyclist and lover of the great “up north” ~ hiking, canoeing, and camping. He keeps our farm up and running and is a wonderful daddy and husband.

Me? Oh, nobody special – just a 49 year old (feel like 23) Christian homeschool/homesteading mama living my dream life. A late bloomer – not marrying until I was 34, but soooo very thankful for the family God has blessed me with. You can find me at www.homeschoolblogger.com/PlainJane.

And did I forget to mention the rest of our family, currently…a Boston Terrier, 3 cats, 3 Angora goats, 3 horses (the “3″ has no significance at all – it just happened that way), and an assortment of roosters, hens, and baby chicks.

What’s your favorite extra curricular activity?
Well, like most homeschoolers, I enjoy buying books ~ sometimes I actually find time to read one. I also like antiques, decorative painting, gardening, playing with our horses and other animals, swimming, cooking/baking, organizing, blogging, and I’m a trained storm spotter.

If you could have any Homeschool material(s), what would you choose?
Good question! I’ve been waiting for the last 9 years for the perfect curriculum (for me), and there just tain’t none. I’m very eclectic, taking the best from a legion of sources and always writing my own — I keep toying with the idea of writing a published curriculum someday. At any rate, I’ve always had a real passion for a truly Biblical education, where the Bible is the center text and perhaps some other books as reference tools and living books; not the other way around with the Bible tacked on as a separate subject or a few verses smathered throughout. I have always been working towards the goal of using the Bible as pretty much my sole text and I think this coming school year we will be closer to that end than ever before. This fall I will be combining two fairly little-known curriculums — Student of the Word (SOW) and Bedell Curriculum. Both take you and your students through the entire Bible, Genesis through Revelation, in chronological order, but each has their own focus — one on Bible and language arts and the other on Bible with science and history. Together they compliment each other quite well. And since I have so many great books, I will also be adding several of them along the way. But of course, my dream curriculum would also include a nicely organized weekly teaching schedule similar to what Sonlight or My Father’s World offer — that I will still have to write myself. I’m very excited about this coming school year.

Has homesteading always been your lifestyle?
Oh no. As an only child, I grew up in the ‘burbs and our family moved a lot. (not sure why) We sometimes had a big garden and my mom would can – - much of what I know is from what I observed & remember. But I often dreamt of being a farmer’s wife and like many little girls, I wanted a horse. In my single days I put my dreams on hold and got caught up in the corporate world just to make a living. I was a Legal Assistant/Office Manager specializing in Commercial Real Estate Law for a number of years and drove a little red sports car and carried a briefcase in a big city ~ but it was never my dream. My husband is not a farmer, but we shared the same dream of one day living “out in the country.” To make a long story short, we bought 10 rolling acres and built our own little house on the prairie 11 years ago. We started organic gardening the next summer and put up a barn just five years ago and got our Angora goats and horses the next year. We love country living and keep learning and working towards a sustainable lifestyle & farm.

Your family has a farm. Is it difficult keeping up with farm work and homeschooling too?
Home educating does take up a large chunk of our day, no doubt about that, as does the farm work. I believe our little farm has just enriched our homeschooling all the more; caring for and observing our animals as well as other wildlife that crosses our property is such a wonderful Lifestyle of Learning. We are training our horses in Natural Horsemanship, which is huge — we learn about safety, the prey/predator mentality, and what an equal balance of love, language, and leadership means when handling a horse or any of our animals, which principles can in turn apply to child training and our girls being loving, patient, and the Lord willing, effective mommies some day. Additionally, giving the girls hands-on experience in the garden and with the harvest teaches them more than they realize. And of course, having animals can teach procreation & life lessons naturally without stressing out the parents too much. :) Anyone can do it, on any scale – even just caring for a single plant and a small pet can reap such rich educational rewards.

Your daughters are advanced in education and that’s a great achievement! How do you keep your children enthusiastic about learning?
We’ve always home schooled and always will – it’s a very strong conviction around our house. First of all, God gets the glory for any success we have experienced. Placing God & His Word first and seeking His guidance make all the difference in the world.

Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness;
and all these things shall be added unto you.”

I take that quite literally, that if we put God first, including in our educational endeavors, He will add knowledge and wisdom and even the kind of success in life that matters most – reading, studying, and memorizing God’s Word are of top priority. Secondly, I love to make learning fun with a sense of humor and a playful spirit. We do all kinds of goofy things while learning with fun crafts, lapbooking, notebooking, time lines, field trips, games, drama — we’ve wrapped each other up in toilet paper like mummies, and stomped gra
pes with our bare feet. But even though we have a lot of “kid-like” fun, I never teach/talk down to the girls. I multi-level teach (now 6th & 9th grade) most subjects together at higher grade levels. Generally speaking, children in times past were more mature and highly educated than their peers of today. Setting high standards, more children are up for the challenge than we give them credit for. Additionally, all children learn by example. My husband and I love educational field trips, books, seminars, etc. – learning is contagious at our house from what is modelled! We pass on a Love of Learning by our example. And lastly, what we teach has to be practical! Both my husband and I are very practical people. I don’t waist my time or our daughers’ time teaching about stuff they will never use. We don’t bow down to the peer pressure of the government school “standards”. Einstein may have just been joking when he said “I never remember anything I can look up”, but it is sooo very true. There is too much to learn out there and there will always be learning gaps – no one knows everything there is to know about everything except God. I am constantly reevaluating where our girls’ gifts & interests lie and gently guiding & teaching in accordance to their individual bents – outside of the Bible, the basics, and their interests – they can “look it up.”

What sort of animal do you wish you could have?
LOL. My husband says I have enough! Well, right now my horse is only a year old – born on our farm last spring. It would be nice if we could fast forward past the immature stage and I could just jump on his back and ride off into the sunset any time of any day – but that only happens in the movies. I keep toying with the idea of getting a couple of Nubian dairy goats, but then the thought of having to milk those babies twice a day in -20 degree winters brings me back to reality.

What’s your day-to-day activities look like?
We always take the summer off. Minnesota winters are too long (I hibernate) and we want to be outside enjoying the warmth as much as possible. But our usual school year runs according to the agricultural season ~ starting after most of the harvest/canning is done (day after Labor Day) and most of it ending around May 1 (planting season). Here’s how a typical (wink) school day might look this fall…

My day always starts at 4:35 a.m., getting hubby’s lunch together and kissing him good-bye. Then I’m feeding the indoor animals, getting ready for the day, having morning devotions, and fitting in a bit of computer time. All is quiet. If the girls sleep in, I need to be out at the barn no later than 7 a.m. to turn the horses out (to pasture) and let the chickens out of the coop to free range.

The girls rise & shine at 6:30 a.m.. They have personal devotions, dress, and we head out to the barn for early morning barn chores of mucking out the stalls and making sure everyone is fed and there is plenty of clean water. The girls do most of the work; I’m just there on safety patrol. After that we are ready for breakfast; they then finish getting ready for the day; and I clean up the kitchen. They then come down when ready and it’s a half hour of house work – trying to keep the house company-ready at all times.

Next it’s school time. We will read 1-3 chapters from where ever we are at in the Bible, discuss it, work on our Bible memorization, and have prayer and hymn singing time. Then depending on the Scripture read, we will outline or lapbook that portion, make a map, do an archaeological, vocabulary, topical, and character study of it, plus a commentary and/or creative writing. This will probably take a couple of hours. Then we also do History and Science – all based on Scripture. Each of the girls will then do their own math work – Bookworm starts Math-U-See Stewardship this year and Ladybug has Teaching Textbooks. Ladybug still has additional Spelling, English, Health and Maps to do until she is done with 6th grade. Both also have vocabulary, typing, art, and music. And Bookworm has Christian Light Education Home Economics. A very full schedule ~ plus we have to squeeze in lunch and a bit of free time somewhere. If time permits, we also will read-aloud some literature pertaining to our Scripture study. By the time all that is done, we may have a little free time, but it’s soon time to get dinner going ~ each girl takes turns helping cook or setting table & with clean up. Our days vary – we also have our bi-weekly Ruby Girls Proverbs 31 Bible Study that we started and other ministry opportunities – mileage may vary.

After dinner, it’s a lot of free time, which usually includes playing with (training) the horses, family time, evening barn chores, and family devotions. Bedtime is at 9 p.m. for all of us. The girls often read for a while, while us older’s value our sleep.

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Nikowa is a 2nd year homeschooling mom to two boys. (Ages 8 and 5) With her “learning never ends” philosophy, they have an eclectic year-round approach to learning. When she’s not teaching, she enjoys photography, organizing, cooking, reading, and knitting. She is a #1 LOST fan and watches UGA football too! (Go Dawgs!) You can visit Nikowa at Knowledge House Academy.

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To Love, Honor and Vacuum: chapter 3

It’s time for Chapter 3 in our book study of Sheila Wray Gregoire’s, “To Love, Honor and Vacuum…

This Ain’t My Mama’s House!

With a title like that, even if you aren’t joining in on the book study, that chapter HAS to intrigue you, come on….you know it does!

We’ve been making our way through “to love, honor and vacuum” and this is one week that I was looking forward to talking about.

We ALL want it. We want to utilize our time for “fulfilling purposes, pursuits and goals,” right? For most of us, if not ALL, housework is something that we HAVE to do and it’s just not a big ball of fun. Sheila tells us WHY we get so little out of those chores that all accumulate into “housework.” On page 51, she lays out quite well why it disagrees with most of us.

Anything that you:
a.) do alone
b.) never get thanked for
c.) never really finish, it just needs redone tomorrow
is likely not going to rate HIGH on the charts.

Given this, most of us don’t greet these tasks with Mary Poppins enthusiasm or have an overwhelming DESIRE to unload the dishwasher or fold the laundry. Well ladies, we’ve been sold a bill of goods. We are given image after image of WHAT a home SHOULD look like, and told that we should be “SUPERWOMEN.” When we don’t feel we meet the standards that we have set for ourselves or we hold to standards of someone else, like our mothers or mother in laws, we are simply setting ourselves up for disaster and depression.

We are told in Scripture that:

“God made you unique and for a specific purpose. He did not make you an extension of someone else; He simply made you.”
Psalm 139
(page 55)

With that being said, are you concentrating and focusing on God’s purposes for you and your family or are you spinning on a hamster wheel just running in endless circles, not one step closer to becoming the person that you were put on this earth to be?

hmmmmm……

Sheila suggests that we look at our standards. We all have em! Some are high, some are low and MANY are unattainable. Many of us have as Sheila examines, “exhausting standards, unattainable standards, stifling standards or conflicting standards.” Most of us fall into one or more of these categories.

I do.
I fall head first into unattainable, exhausting and conflicting standards at times……There, my secrets are EXPOSED!

How can we change it? I’ve learned that sitting around waiting for “my people” to change is a waste of my time and energy, I need to change myself.

HOW?
We can examine these three questions that Sheila asks us on page 58-59.

Are all members of my family looking more like Christ?

Are you a good steward of your gifts?

Are you providing a stumbling block to others?

When I begin to use the gifts that I’ve been given by God to serve others, when I begin to look closely if I am helping my family become more like Christ, and examine if I in any way cause someone else, especially in my household to stumble, I’m on a path to line up with God’s will for my life.

Facts are that chores HAVE to be done. Sinks accumulate dishes and laundry piles up and SOMEBODY’S GOTTA DO IT.

IT CAN BE DONE….IT CAN BE SIMPLER!

All it takes is a plan….and a commitment to that plan. Organize, maintain and schedules will FREE you to become the woman God wants you to be….focused on “eternal goals” rather than trying to recreate some unachievable picture perfect life. Look to your gifts, look to the source of those gifts.
It WILL take commitment, it will take patience, it will take undoing some bad habits, but if we commit to tossing the myths out the window, we will let in a breeze that change us forever!


Join me back here on October 11th where we’ll move on to Chapter 4, Balancing Tipped Scales.

Until then…..

I encourage you to look to your life, the myths and how you can make changes to become the fulfilled, purposeful woman that God created you to be….we were all created for something, every one of US!

Chapters:
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7

Lori is a 5 year homeschool mom to 3. Currently a 8th grader, a 6th grader and a 4th grader. Lori insists that when she was wrestling with the decision to home school, a gentle voice guided her with the words, “you know what you should do.” Never looking back, accepting the challenges and rewards and CONSTANTLY clinging to THE ROCK…”No Storm can shake my inmost calm when to this ROCK I’m clinging.” Lori hopes to impart peace and inspiration amidst the daily chaos. Be sure to visit her blog at All You Have to Give.

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October Unit Study: Trains –n- Railroads

Climb aboard ladies! We’re going to embark on a study on Trains and Railroads! You might think this topic would only be good for your little boy “engineers”, but it can truly be a rich study full of History AND Science. I don’t mean to “blow my own horn” but I’ve just completed this study with my 9 year old daughter and we had a blast.

This unit study will be posted on October 5th. If you have ideas or resources to share, please email them to us by October 3rd.

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Heart of the Matter Friday Meme: Record-Keeping, the Essentials!

Welcome to the Heart of the Matter Online meme. Every Friday we will feature a different topic for our meme. Mr. Linky is set up below so please share with us your thoughts on Record-Keeping, the Essentials!

Do you keep a grade book? Does your state require attendance sheets or a portfolio? What are some of the best methods of organization that you have found to keep up with all of the school records for the year? Are you an organizational expert or do you find it to be a hassle? What about online forms–can you recommend some good sites to others? Share with us your greatest successes and your greatest flops in this area!

Please link directly to your Record-Keeping, the Essentials! post. Failure to leave a direct link will result in the removal of your name from Mr. Linky.

The schedule for the theme of the homeschool meme is located in the right column under “Blog With Us”. Please check it out to view upcoming themes.

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Essential Documents

After my mother’s untimely passing, it got me to thinking about my last wishes. I do not have a Last Will and Testament but I sure do have plans on where my assets would go. Would you want your assets going to the state? Would you want all of your (or your family’s) hard earned money going to a family member that didn’t want anything to do with you when you were alive?

Definitely not me! So I’m on a quest to make my Will(s). Did you know that you can make your own Last Will and Testament*? I’m very much a do-it-yourself kinda girl and went searching for templates. You can take the completed Will to have it notarized, then you can file it as you see fit. Yes this is completely legal & binding. We’re putting ours in our fireproof safe.

Just go to this website, pick the Will** with your specific life situation (i.e. Married with Minor Children, Divorced with Adult Children, etc) and save the PDF form to your hard-drive. If you want to just be able to enter the information into the PDF form & print, that’s a paid service. I’ve already typed up my dad’s & mailed it to him for his own information/filing. Today, I’m completing my own.

Death generally is unexpected, even though we all know it’s inevitable. It’s better to make plans now for what you’d like done, than leave everyone fighting over assets. Death is hard enough emotionally, but I can speak from experience & say that death’s can tear families apart. Won’t you make it a little easier on your loved ones? Make sure you have a Last Will and Testament.

*I am not a lawyer & I don’t represent a lawyer. For legal advice, please contact a lawyer.*

**Keep in mind that a Last Will and Testament is different from a Living Will. The Last Will and Testament tells everyone what you want done with your assets/children after your death. It even states how you want to be buried/cremated, etc. A Living Will tells your medical wishes if you’re in a situation where you can’t speak for yourself (coma). This tells whether or not you want to be on life support, feeding tubes, etc.**

Nikowa is a 2nd year homeschooling mom to two boys. (Ages 8 and 5) With her “learning never ends” philosophy, they have an eclectic year-round approach to learning. When she’s not teaching, she enjoys photography, organizing, cooking, reading, and knitting. She is a #1 LOST fan and watches UGA football too! (Go Dawgs!) You can visit Nikowa at Knowledge House Academy.

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Giveaway: First Language Lessons of the WTM

**The winner is Nikki (aka nikkiculture).

Today we are giving away a copy of First Language Lessons for the Well-Trained Mind, Levels 1 & 2, written by Jessie Wise.

Parents can assure their child’s success in language arts with this simple-to-use, scripted guide. First Language Lessons for the Well-Trained Mind uses picture study and other classical techniques to develop the child’s language study in those first two all-important years of school. Each lesson leads the parent, step-by-step, through the simple oral and written projects that build reading, writing, spelling, storytelling, and comprehension skills. Use this book to supplement school learning, or as the center of a home-school language arts course.

About the Author
Jessie Wise, a former teacher, is a home educational consultant, speaker, and co-author of The Well-Trained Mind: A Guide to Classical Education at Home, a book which has rapidly become an educational standard.

Read a review by HOTM guest reviewer Sarah Small.

To enter the giveaway, simply leave a comment below. Comments will be closed Friday, September 26th at 10pm EST and the winner will be announced on Sunday in our new weekly newsletter. You can sign up by entering your email address in over in the right sidebar.

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I Did Not Teach My Children the Alphabet

What did you do at the beginning of homeschool?

When I answered that question, the response was surprise. I never taught my children the alphabet. Our lessons have not included A is for Apple worksheets, or practicing the alphabet song. So how did my children learn letter names and ask others to sing along?

Only one child suffered through recreating school at home. My oldest had to sit in a desk and raise his hand to speak. Anxiety pushed me and he resisted. His own perfectionism collided with mine.

Wobbly letters on tear stained pages remind me of those first steps into homeschool. I regret squelching my son’s excitement for learning those first weeks.

Thankfully, I spoke with the teacher who taught me Writing Road to Reading after the first fits. She admonished me to slow down. I thought I was doing everything right, but the book led me and fear drove me. Her words spoken with the confidence of experience brought peace.

It will come with practice. Relax. School shouldn’t be so hard.

Those words come back to me often. It has taken me years to relax, but I’m beginning to understand. Slow, steady progress is difficult to see when you sit next to it day after day.

A few years earlier, when my son was still toddling around in a diaper, I asked that same teacher how to prepare for school. Images of flashcards swirled in my mind. Her words scattered them.

Play with him and read a lot. That is the best foundation you can give him.

I took her advice. We did not work on numbers or letters. We just built blocks and talked while reading books.

Formal lessons began with learning phonograms, the sounds the letters make, not the A,B,C’s. I taught my son how to form the letters, how to say the sounds, and mentioned spelling rules, such as q is followed by u. And when he knew alphabetical order without any further instruction, I realized some things don’t have to be written in lesson plans.

Children learn far more than we realize by playing, listening, and living.

Renae teaches her ten-year-old son and two little girls at home. She has prepared lesson plans, enjoyed children’s literature, and delighted in discovery with her children for five years. By studying Principle Approach philosophy, she realized what she always suspected: the Bible lies at the heart of all subjects. Find her reflections at Life Nurturing Education.

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