Lies Homeschooling Moms Believe #2

Welcome BACK to Heart of the Matter Devotional Study~
(Todd's site can be found here)

We've come the conclusion in chapter one that the LIES are out there. Those lies plague each of us and are a detriment to our home school and our homes. We each struggle with these lies at some time, and they affect our ability and desires to teach our children.

What exactly are the lies we fall for?

Todd begins by saying that many of these lies sound crazy, silly, even weird when you speak them out loud; not in the least 'spiritual.' However, when our spirits are attacked, we are discouraged and frustrated, not at all living in the will of God.....
so on with the "crazy" list.




My name is Lori and I'm a home school mom who has believed the lies.
WHEW, that felt good!!
The lies I'm prone to believe are likely not the same ones that continually trip you up.
On page 38 and 48 Todd gives us a list of lies and asks which we identify with most.
Ladies, here it is....

My list:
*Everyone's kids are better than yours*
*Everyone is better disciplined and 'way more' spiritual*
*You are the only one who is falling apart and feels the way you feel*

Maybe it's because my kids often 'forget' to wear shoes, forget to brush their teeth, can't carry a tune let alone have a desire to play an instrument. Maybe it's because I get up early every day and find myself distracted by 'this or that' and my quiet time just isn't what I imagine every other homeschool mom out there having. Maybe it's because I'm a girl.

Why am I so darn hard on myself. There are plenty of lies I don't fall for. I'm comfortable with how clean my house is. The meals I prepare will never grace the cover of a "Gourmet Food Magazine," but they are healthy and delivered daily. I have a wonderful relationship with my husband, he is my best friend....

WHY then, do I not focus on what goes well, examine the areas that I need to work on and move on? Why do I return to those things, especially at "that time of the month," on the list above.
It's because I'm not being careful enough.

The chapter begins with a verse that I believe is where the answer lies.

"Be on the alert, your adversary, the devil, prowls about like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour."
1Peter 5:8

The only way to not believe the LIES is to know that the 'liar of liars' is always lurking. Always whispering, "you are not good enough." Always putting in front of me in the grocery line, the perfectly coiffed, perfectly educated, perfectly perfect mom. That's what he does. He attacks, but without roars, but with subtle hints dropped at the homeschool group, subtle hints dropped by other kids about what they are 'doing.' He attacks when I show up at the grocery in sweats only to run into "the perfect mom." Ladies, he does it to me and while reading this chapter I came to one conclusion....

NO ONE can make me believe the LIES!

There are areas that I know God is revealing to show me that I need to do some work, that is different, that is of God. I have a friend who reminds me often that,

"God is not a God of confusion...if it's confusing, it's NOT of God."

What wisdom in that. I know when God is speaking to me. It's gentle and real, it's ALWAYS to make me better, more like Him. It's the other voice that carries confusion which leads me into self doubt and fear.

Whew, I've come through Part 2 more aware than I've ever been about what is "lurking" to attack me as a home school mom. I see much more clearly that NONE of us, if we are honest, can say that we can't identify with any of those lists that Todd provides. We are after all women.

I don't know about you but I feel a sense of release here! I feel that knowing where my weakness lies, I can guard those attacks. I also know clearly to ask and seek God in discernment as to what is of Him and what is not.

So what if we routinely have to run into the Dollar Store to buy flip flops because one of the three people who regularly travel with me FORGOT again....

I'm not perfect and that's ok!!
(but you still wouldn't want to hear us sing!!)

Father,
Thank you for this time in study. Thank you for the revealing that the lies that plague us are not YOUR best for us. Help us to discern YOUR voice in the midst of the lies that the enemy so cleverly whispers and places on our paths, defeating us in our homeschool journey. Victory is in YOU. Hope is in YOU. Love is found in YOU. Your love is abundant and your grace sufficient for each day. Father, help us on this walk to move out of believing the lies and moving into the TRUTHS that are found only in YOU. Guide us gently on this journey, help us to be still and hear your voice and to seek and live out the example of your son Jesus.
God is Good, All the time.....you created each one of us for "such a time as this." Thank you for your faithfulness Father, and hold our hands each and every day.
Amen~

Field Trip Friday

Choo Choo! Today we steam down memory lane with the Bee bunch! Watch out for the steam and stay off the tracks! Be sure to wave at the conductor and ask him to toot the train's horn!

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Steam Train Field Trip
Originally posted May 13, 2006

While we were in Houston one weekend, there was a traveling steam train that claimed to be the world's largest that came to town. The kids enjoyed going up the stairs and talking with the engineer about the gears in the engine. They played in the steam next to the huge wheels. I copied a photo of our family standing by one of the wheels of the train to show you just how large they were. It was a HUGE train. They had a gift shop attached that you could buy prints and souvenirs from also. Trains have always infatuated Kaden. If you have a train to visit near you, you should go!

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Thanks for joining us down at the tracks.

Leave us a link to your fantastic outing in the Mr. Linky below!

Have you gone on an exciting field trip recently? Tell us all about it and be sure to link back to this post so others can visit!

Happy Birthday Dianne

We would like to wish our wonderful
Dianne a very blessed birthday. Please stop by her blog at Bunny Trails and leave her a birthday comment.

Heart of the Matter Online Conference

Be the Beauty That You Are.... QUICKLY!

I know that one too many times my husband would come home to find me in complete disarray; my hair bobby pinned to my head to keep it out of my eyes, no make-up - well unless you count the juice mustache, and an ensemble of clothes that don't match because I don't clean the house in "good" clothes for fear that I will mess them up. So, after a stark realization that I could fix this problem with just 10 minutes a day, I took action. Here is what I do:

1. Have the hubby call when he is about to leave the office/job. This gives me about 20-30 minutes to call a "ten minute tidy" for the kids to clean up the house and I have time to wrap up whatever I am doing so I can get to my 10 minute makeover! :o)

2. Change clothes. A nice t-shirt and a pair of jeans are better than a paint stained t-shirt and jogging pants.

3. Put on a dab of perfume. Wake up your senses and his!

4. Brush your teeth. You will be surprised at how much better you will feel.

5. Put your face on. My day to day make-up routine consists of a tinted moisturizer, eyeliner, eyelash curler, blush to go on the cheeks and eyelids, and lip gloss or chapstick. That's it. Less than a minute and I'm done. If you aren't a make-up kind of gal then just put on some chapstick and rub your cheeks a bit to make them rosey. Something that simple makes a huge difference.

6. Fix your hair. Just brush it, flip it over and shake to add body, and spray where needed. If your hair tends to get oily throughout the day then try adding a bit if baby powder to your brush prior to brushing (focusing on the roots) and that will remove some of the oil. If you have darker hair then spray the roots with hairspray and then wipe with a dry towel. The alcohol in the spray will absorb the oils.

7. Say a quick prayer. Here is an example of the prayer I began to pray before my husband gets home:

Father, I thank you for this wonderful day, the man of God that you have given me, and for the joyous evening we are about to have. I ask for the safe return of my husband and I ask that you would help him to leave at the front door any thoughts or moods that are not of you and that are not beneficial to our family and our home. I pray that when he opens the door to our home and sees me standing their that he will rejoice in the wife of his youth and that he will show me the same kind of love that Christ showed the church. I pray that I will be the crown of my husband and love and respect him as I should. In Jesus' name. Amen.

There you have it. My 10 minute, 7 step routine to being the beauty that he already knows you are inside. What are some of your tips? We'd love to hear them!

Homesteading? Me? No, absolutely not me.

Are you a homesteader?

Are you crazy?

Or smarter than the rest of us?

I didn't start out down the crazy-path willingly. It's come a little at a time.

Okay, to be brutally honest, my dad did always say that I was born in the wrong time - that I'd have made a good "flower child." And there was that time that my sister-in-law called me a hippie - to which I vehemently replied (at least in my head) "I most certainly am NOT!"

Until I read the definition:

Hippie: –noun
a person, esp. of the late 1960s, who rejected established institutions and values and sought spontaneity, direct personal relations expressing love, and expanded consciousness, often expressed externally in the wearing of casual, folksy clothing and of beads, headbands, used garments, etc.
Also, hippy.
Compare flower child.
Taken from: American Psychological Association (APA):
hippie.
(n.d.). Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Retrieved May 07, 2008, from
Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/hippie

Oh. "...rejected established institutions and values..." "...sought spontaneity..." "...expressed externally in the wearing of casual, folksy clothing...used garments..."

I repeat, oh.

Yeah... That would be me. Who knew?

But I thought my crazy leanings only encompassed those silly braids, bandanas, and goofy t-shirts.
Until I had kids. "You mean I'm supposed to put them in daycare at 6 weeks old? Um, I don't think I can do that." "Still breastfeeding at 13 months? Uh, yes I am. Is that weird?" "Yeah, I'm really having my 4th child and my oldest is 6, you mean you don't want any more kids? Are you sure I'm the strange one?" "Yeah, we tried school and hated it, so we're homeschooling. No, I'm not kidding."

So it shouldn't be that big of a surprise for me to be looking into homesteading. But it is. Really. I'm so in denial. It started out as researching how to save money since all these children are starting to really eat, not just nibble at their hot dogs anymore. I mean really eat. That grocery bill's only goin' to keep climbin'. So I guess we better get intentional about our shopping. And cooking. Suddenly I'm being wooed by other people's pantries that are full of those shining glass jars that hold such goodies all year 'round. Not to mention, they usually come from their own hard working of their own land. Oh, homesteading life, why must you be whispering my name so invitingly? My mind turns to daydreaming all too often these days. "If I just had some chickens, I could have eggs." "Mmm.. Honey... we could have our very own honey!" "If I just had some fruit trees, oh the applesauce we could make." "If I just had some veggies, and, oh, OH, herbs! Wouldn't herbs be just delightful?"

Each time I open my processed-laden cabinets, I pine for items that are the fruits of my labor. And somehow, I think I would rather labor over a hot stove than to labor over a buggy full of cranky children, in a cranky store, with lots of other cranky shoppers, only to come home, unloading my overpriced goods, and sulk in my own crankiness.

So to the frugal sites I came skipping along, looking forward to such wonderful tips. And I found, as I began looking at all these resources the word "homesteading" kept coming up. Homesteading? But that's just for those really out there weird people. Right?

Uh, hello? Person in the mirror, just what do you think you are? Normal? Really, now.

So, I looked up "homesteading":

At Christian Homesteaders Association they list a few of the Christian Homesteader's attributes as:
...They usually live in the country, although there are urban homesteaders.
...They grow some of their own food.
...They are financially responsible, choosing to work their way out of debt.
...They homeschool their children.
...They embrace new alternative energy technologies like solar and wind power.
...They depend less upon government and more upon themselves.

New Harvest Homestead puts it this way,"...we have come to embrace the literal meaning of the word which, simply put, means to be 'steadfast at home'. We want to encourage and assist Christians in rediscovering the practical skills and home arts which were once commonplace in our culture, but have been all but lost to the last couple of generations. We especially want to encourage women who want to give the majority of their time and energy to their families and homes, in contrast to a culture where women are constantly on the go."

Well, if that's weird, then count me in. I wanna be as weird as the next homesteader. Bring it on. I have lofty goals, people, I want to buy a deep freeze. And I plan to learn to "can" this summer. Not my own food, mind you, I have no garden and can't keep simple flowers alive, but someday... Ah, far off, utopian someday... I'm aware that I'm startin' small, but at least I'm startin'. So, think I'm weird, if you must. That's okay with me. I don't mind. But while you're out there poking around in the cyber-garden, if you come across some great resources for this hush-hush term I'd just love it if you passed them along to me!

Mother's Day Giveaway 2008 Winner

We are thrilled to announce that we have chosen a winner for our 2008 Mother’s Day Giveaway.

Our core team and sponsors shed many tears as we read through all of the entries we received but in the end it was a unanimous decision that the Lord was leading us to Christina Barricks and her family.

Nominated by her sister, Tristan Rowlee, here is the official nomination:

I want to nominate Christina Barrick. She is an amazing young homeschooling mom, and my sister. She and her husband Justin have 3 children so far, Isaiah is 6, Justin is 3 and Hannah is 6 mos.

Her husband serves our country in the Army and has already been deployed for a year to Kuwait when Justin was just 1. He will be deploying again, this time to Iraq, during the next school year. They have moved recently to the Fort Lewis base in Washington state, far from any family.

My sister is so good at teaching her boys in the way they learn best, following their interests, and making learning fun. I know that being chosen for this gift could make the next year of homeschooling easier and more manageable for her, and free up a lot of her preparation time to spend every possible minute with Daddy before he leaves. Homeschooling helps their family to BE a family. It gives them the time to make memories for the times they aren't together.

I know having things ready to use would also make homeschooling doable once daddy deploys. I have watched her be a single parent, doing all the teaching, shopping, and caring for a young family the last time he had to deploy. There are no breaks or time off for her. No one else can stay up with a sick child. No one else will be there to watch the kids while she gets groceries or library books, or gets the car fixed. She will have to take three young children with her everywhere. No one will be able to help with baths. She'll shower as quick as she can and hope the kids don't take apart the house while she's in there.

She will have to comfort three little children who miss their daddy every day, all the while not knowing if he will make it home safely or become another soldier lost in action. Every time the news says another soldier was injured or killed she will have to wonder if it was her husband, and wait for his next phone call or letter.

And when those letters or calls come she will have to comfort and strengthen her sweetheart who is seeing humanity at it's worst. She will have to help the little ones hold the phone so they can talk to daddy, and try not to cry when they ask how soon he's coming home. Every time there is a knock at the door she will be afraid to answer it, because there might be a uniformed officer on the other side with news no wife wants to hear, that her husband gave his life so others can live free. She is so far from family(we are in Ohio) that there will be no one to share the burden with.

I don't know how she does it. She amazes me with her trust in God to provide for her family and watch over her husband. She humbles me on the days when I feel like complaining that my husband got home late from work or I'm needing a break from the kids. She won't see her husband for a year or more, she won't have any breaks to regain peace. She will keep going, day after day, because she is the mommy, and that is what moms do. They keep the family together even when they are half a world away.

We will have a list of all the nominations, and excerpts from the emails we recieved nomintating them, in the near future.

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Congratulations, Christina!
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Menu Help For Busy Moms

Even though we tend to be home a lot home schooling and taking care of our own, I find it hard sometimes to find time to prepare and make healthy meals for my family. For me,I need to make a plan and if I don’t have one, we tend to eat things that are not so healthy.

We are a busy family. Making healthy meals the kids want to eat has been a challenge for us over the years. Not only that, but fast simple meals everyone will like! We do have the favorite few recipes already in place, but it gets a little boring. I also enjoy cooking when I have the chance, but most of the time the recipes I want to use take a lot of prep work and its just to much for a busy home getting close to the end of the day. Not only that, but the recipes tend to be expensive to make. So recently I began a search to find something easy to make, and that won’t cost me an arm and a leg to buy the ingredients.

One of my favorite finds recently has been a gem of a book I found at my local library. It’s called " Daily Meal Planner: A busy homemakers answer to simplified menu planning" by Joan Day Brady.



What a blessing this book has been! It is broken down by months with recipes to follow, with ingredients that are in season. They are simple recipes and have few ingredients making them not only easy but inexpensive. The book also offers blank monthly schedules so you can use any of the recipes on any given day of the week. You don’t have to follow what’s already printed. Its versatile and has an easy to follow format.

I have maxed my 3 times to re-check out this book and resorted to checking it out under my daughters name so I wouldn’t have to wait again. I should have remembered my 3 check out rule. If I check it out 3 times and really use it, I should consider buying it. *Ü*

Meals are such an important time of the day for us. In our busy home sitting down to enjoy a meal can be absent some nights. When we do, its our time to reconnect as a family. It’s also fun if you can make a meal special. Maybe placing a pretty table cloth out with candles lit, or flowers. It doesn’t have to be fancy. The most important ingredients are food, family, and great conversation. Those ingredients add flavor to any meal.

Proverbs 15:17
Better is a dish of vegetables where love is than a fattened ox served with hatred.

Bad, Bad Cup!

Big Daddy comes in and interrupts me while I am in class (on-line). He seems to be really upset about what he has just discovered. In comes a nearly naked Pretty Pink Princess.

I ask her, "What happened to your clothes?"

Big Daddy- "You need to come see this and do something with the Princess before I sentence her to the tower for eternity."

I walk into the bathroom to see a trail of water from the toilet to PPP's potty. On the side of the tub is a coffee mug. (Are you ready for this?) I dared to ask, "Princess, who made this mess?"

Princess- "What mess? Somebody did that? "
Me - "Really, Well who was playing in the toilet?"
Princess- "Somebody did that. I don't know who!"
(Ahh, she looks soo sweet and innocent)

Me - "WHO WAS PLAYING IN THE TOILET?" (dumb question)
Princess- "Somebody, maybe brother."
Me -"YOUR BROTHER WAS NOT IN THE BATHROOM"
Princess- "Oh yeah, he has been in the chair."
Me -"YES, he has."
Princess- "Well, somebody did that. Maybe me? That was not me."
Me -"It wasn't?" (another dumb question)

Princess- "No. That was my hand that did that."

Me - *eyes rolling and concealing laughter* "So, not you, but your hand made all this mess by itself?"
Princess- "Yeah. My hand did that. And the cup too!"
Me -"GET A TOWEL, CLEAN UP YOUR HAND MESS AND STAY OUT OF THE BATHROOM UNLESS YOU HAVE HAVE A REASON TO BE IN HERE!"
Princess- "The cup made this mess too. It help me clean too? Come on cup, we clean this mess."

She gets a towel and gives the cup a ride on it as she wipes up her mess. How do you correct that?

Seriously... whoever said we weren't born with a sin nature is kidding themselves. No one ever taught this child to lie but it is our job as parents to teach them why they shouldn't. So what kind doozies have your kids tried to pull on you? How did you teach them better?

Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD.
Psalms 34:11

The Middle Ages by Hip2Homeschool / Review

UPDATE!
The winner was: Donna Sweet!

Excerpts from Amy Bayliss' Review:

"I had the pleasure of reviewing this unit study with my boys. I was happy to see everything laid out so nicely, and in order with a table of contents to guide through each day. The activities and links were plentiful and relevant. Heather insured that every subject was covered within the study and it is complete with vocabulary, book list, video recording links, and 26 days of lessons all planned out for you. "

Excerpts from Dana Hanley's Review:

"The Middle Ages is a unit study by Heather E. Langston which brings together the study of history, literature, geography, art and government as young learners explore what life was like in Europe during the middle ages. It comes with an extensive resources list which includes both a variety of Internet resources as well as books of varying reading levels, most of which were readily available at in our library system.

The resource list was both the most valuable part of the study, and perhaps my only criticism. The different sites provide resources for every learning style, presenting written descriptions, drawings, examples of artwork, time lines and even a model castle to construct from paper. The books also present different aspects of life in this time, as well as a variety of reading levels. The study has enough to engage any child from kindergarten to probably fifth or sixth grade, with the ability to adapt for older children.

With the amount of resources, however, it took some time to go through the sites and books to evaluate which would be most appropriate for my family. Once you get through the initial resource list, however, it is laid out very clearly, with only a few sites to look at each day of the study.

My children were most excited by the coloring sheets, which were better than most of the free coloring sheets I have printed off in the past, and the prospect of making a model castle. Although they have only done a couple of the activities, they are looking forward to learning more."

Giveaway!

Hip 2 Homeschool is giving away to one lucky winner their Rocks and Minerals Unit Study. All you have to do to enter is go to Hip 2 Homeschool's website , find a unit study that you like, come back here and leave a comment telling us which unit study is most appealing to you and why.

More about the Rocks and Mineral Unit Study: Through this unit study, you will discover the world of rocks and minerals. Topics explored in this unit are the three types of rocks, plus minerals, volcanoes, metals, and the layers of the earth. Also you will learn about natural wonders made of rock, such as the Grand Canyon, and man made structures in the rock, such as Mount Rushmore. This is a 3 week study; 60 pages. Value: $17.50

Featured Homeschooler

Please welcome this week's featured homeschooler The Nester!!

1. Tell us a bit about yourself and why you call yourself The Nester.

I have a very unusual name. My name is so unusual that I am the only one who has it. I googled just my first name once and all my tax records came up and my previous addresses and all kinds of helpful information that any respectable robber or killer would love to have. I have had a staging and redesign business for a few years and also sold junk that I make and my business name has always been "Nesting Place". When I started my blog in November, it asked me what my name was and I panicked and tried to think of something that would go with Nesting Place {my blog title} and genius that I am, The Nester just worked.

2. Tell us about your adorable children.

I have three boys. My oldest is 10 and is a huge Jeff Gordon {NASCAR driver} fan. We live about 2 miles from a huge speedway so you can imagine the fun he's had with that. He is like his daddy and is big hearted and sensitive. The middle child, poor thing, is soon to be 8 and is curious, mischievous, a lover of people and has such a zest for life. He's in charge of public relations for the family. My baby, even poorer thing, is soon to be 7 {13 months younger than the middle} and has my personality. He loves math, legos and reminds me that it's time to start school. He keeps me in line.

3. What led to your decision to homeschool your children?

My husband has a master's degree in eduction with an emphasis on curriculum and instruction. He's always been opinionated and had high standard for our boys and their education. I on the other hand, really liked any school where they had to wear a uniform. The two oldest attended a classical Christian school until last year. I had felt a small, easy to ignore nudging from the Lord to consider homeshooling a few years ago. I totally passed the thought and reasoned that I was not cut out for that because I did not drive a mini van. Over time the thoughts persisted. I still had my SUV but, the Lord kept putting the idea of homeschooling in my head. It seemed like everywhere I went I would run into these great families that homeschooled. They were normal and seemed to truly enjoy the time spent educating their children. That was very appealing. To make a long story a little shorter, through a series of unfortunate events, we had a job change and homeshooling was not only a great option but almost a necessity.

4. What type of homeschooler do you consider yourself to be?

I consider myself to be a slack homeshooler this year. I struggle with feeling like I'm the worst homeschool mom in the world. I'm sure I'm too hard on myself but anything is slack compared to the fact that they had been learning latin. Our goal was to get to the end of the year and to have enjoyed the process. I wanted to make sure that I was in a position to want to homeshool again. We focused on reading this year. We keep on schedule with math and grammar but we want our boys to love to read. I am happy to report that my oldest read more books in this one year than in all his previous years combined! I really enjoyed reading all types of books to them and cherish the time we had together. And guess what? We are homeschooling next year, mission accomplished!

5. What is your most favorite room in your house?

My favorite room in our house is our family room. We spend lots of time in there. I am lucky enough to have an actual homeshool room. I hate to say that we only use it to store our supplies. 75% of our schooling is done in our family room snuggling on the sofa or sitting on the floor at the coffee table. Our family room is the heart of our home right now. It's got lots of comfy seating and opens to the kitchen which makes me so happy. We can watch a NASCAR race, sit by the fire and eat our BBQ chicken nachos all in one room!

6. Can you remember the very first “crafty” creation that you made for your home?
I have always moved around furniture and tried to use what I have to beautify our home. When I was in high school my parents when out of town. Because I was not cool like the other kids I didn't have a big bad party but rearranged all furniture to use the space better. I am happy to report that my mom loved it! I can remember in 9th grade pressing flowers in my Bible and when they were dry I would use hairspray and "glue" them to my door frame. I'm sure my parents thought that was a swell idea. I played with Barbies until I was 13. But, I wasn't really playing {to my younger sister's displeasure} I was designing their lavish homes.

7. If you had $1000 to spend in a store like Joann’s, what would you buy?

$1000? I would really want to use it to pay down debt. We are totally gazelle about getting our big gnarly business debt completely wiped out. But, I do love me some ribbon, toile, trim, fringe, sharp scissors and Joann's has some fantastic home accessories. Oh, and I would also get me a Hershey's bar of course.

8. You recently opened an Etsy store, tell us about some of the items you have for sale.

I'm completely blushing that you asked me about my etsy shop. I still cannot believe that I haven't single handedly wrecked up the entire internet. I hate computers. I have been making tassels--you know what people hang on their armoire and such? Anyhow, I've been making them for years now and had some left over and thought I'd try out etsy. The next thing I knew, people were buying them up, putting in their requests for rooster toppers, boot toppers and nest toppers. I even had a shop in Savannah solicit me to sell my wares. I'm still in shock that people are actually willing to spend their hard earned cash on junk that I make. I have added some quirky items and arrangements to the store too. Then, when I sell each item I go through a mourning process for each thing. It's really quite sad. I love everything I make and am just as happy that I get to keep something if it doesn't sell! I would definitely encourage anyone who's ever thought about crafting to try etsy.

9. What piece of advice would you give to a homemaker who had no clue where to start when it comes to making their house feel like a home?

My advice for someone who was longing for that homey feeling but didn't know where to start? I would tell them to scrape up $3, have your honey keep the kids and spend a few hours at your local bookstore pouring through magazines. You could even take your camera and take photos of the homes/rooms that you like. I have actually done this because I am too cheap to buy 15 magazines. Once you get a feel of what you want start looking at how it was accomplished in the photos that you like. For years I was afraid of committing to fabric or color--afraid that I would spend the money and hate it! Well, I finally sat down with my husband, made a plan for what we needed, what each room's purpose was, and how we could pay cash for every purchase for the home. It took about a year but, we furnished our home and got marri