Are Projects Even a Possibility?

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Rocking in a worn, overstuffed recliner comatose from late nights with an infant, my brain clung to reality, but tears flooded resolve. My life was no longer my own. I was exhausted trying to keep my previous pace.

Would I ever rest again? Would I ever finish another project?

Before my son was born, it was not uncommon for me to plow through project after project. Decorating, organizing, or creating always brewed in my mind. As a new mother, I quickly realized I might be able to accomplish one thing a day, not my previous lengthy scroll.

I used to tease my mother for having closets and drawers full of half-finished creative pursuits. Her craft closet overflowed. Fabric spilled out of the doors. Rainbows of acrylic paint stuffed the shelves. Ideas stored until the moment of inspiration became cobwebs.

What I didn’t realize was my closets would resemble hers. Now I regret my laughter. (Forgive me, Mom.)

Caring for a family is a lot of work. Nourishing bodies, minds, and souls is a sacrifice. 10 1/2 years ago, I moaned through sobs, “Even if I never sleep again, it is worth it.”

I surrendered to the job God gave me, a job eternities more important than making pottery or redecorating the bathroom. This doesn’t mean I never take time to delight in the process of creating, or work to finish a job while the dishes mold in the sink.

However, I changed the way I view projects. Instead of thinking I need to paint the entire house, I break it into smaller tasks.

1. Gather paint samples.
2. Choose color.
3. Buy paint.
4. Paint one side of the house.
5. Repeat until complete.

When I use this idea with smaller projects and hobbies, the results are better. I ran out of house paint a year ago right after my husband lost his job. Now it won’t be such a stretch to add paint to the shopping list, so I’m going back to step three. The season needs to change before I climb the ladder to slather ugly brick with creamy Darby Creek, but it will happen, not as quickly or as easily as before my children came, but it will happen.

Many of my craft supplies collect more dust than I desire, but as my children grow I hope we’ll rediscover an idea or two and create something far better than I imagined. Maybe we’ll create a memory, and my children will know they are more important than to-do lists.

Photo credits: maessive, lenchensmama

Renae teaches her ten-year-old son and two little girls at home. She has prepared lesson plans, enjoyed children’s literature, and delighted in discovery with her children for five years. By studying Principle Approach philosophy, she realized what she always suspected: the Bible lies at the heart of all subjects. Find her reflections at Life Nurturing Education.