Toward the end of every school year, I find myself sifting through a pile of homeschool curriculum catalogs, re-evaluating what has worked well this past school year and what could be better. By summer, I’ve completed most of my plan for the upcoming school year, but there are always still a few decisions to make. I also try to spend a little time re-thinking my main homeschool goals. Sure, I want my children to be artistic, eloquent, creative, confident, responsible, caring, and—of course—brilliant. But just exactly how am I supposed to accomplish all that?
At a homeschool mom’s retreat I was blessed to attend earlier this year, I gleaned some invaluable wisdom. No matter what curriculum you use, how many hours of school you do, or how much planning you put into it, there will be some of those dreaded “education gaps” – GASP!
It is impossible for even the best school, homeschool or otherwise, to complete an education with absolutely no “holes.” But, here’s the good news: God fills in the holes. Let me say that again: God fills in the holes. Take a minute to let that sink in.
“I [the LORD] will teach all your children, and they will enjoy great peace.” Isaiah 54:13
Think of the freedom that gives you! You are no longer enslaved to competition within your household or in comparing the “success” of your homeschool to anyone else’s. You don’t have to worry if your child isn’t one of the highest scorers on standardized tests. God Himself is the teacher, guide, principal, and planner for your homeschool. You need only look to God to guide you. Give your children fully and truly to God, and He will take charge of their education.
OK, so this promise God gives us is HUGE and wonderful, but how does this look practically? We must remember that we homeschool moms are not just teachers; we are disciplers.
A few questions to ask yourself:
- What kind of influence am I having on my family?
The way we live our lives does have influence on those around us, especially our children, so before we jump into shaping their character, we have to look at our own. - How is my own relationship with Christ?
As we grow closer to Christ ourselves, it will be easier to point our children towards Him. - What kind of home environment have I created?
The more loving, encouraging, and edifying our home and family life is, the better everyone in the home will be able to learn and grow. - How well do I know my children? We must be in tune with the heart of our children to know where they may be struggling, where they need extra encouragement. If we are to be able to properly guide and disciple our children, we must be intentional about spending quality time with them, continually getting to know them as they grow and change.
If you’ve never written a mission statement for your homeschool, I highly recommend it. I may still tweak mine, but so far, it looks like this:
“Education is an Atmosphere, a Discipline, a Life.
We want to give our children a quality education built on the solid foundation of Biblical teaching and faith in Christ. To allow them the freedom to wonder, imagine, ask questions, and learn hands-on whenever possible. To teach them to be confident and self-disciplined. To love, encourage, and disciple them so they grow up to be spiritually wise, creative, responsible, caring individuals who follow Christ and lead lives that glorify God.”
There is no right or wrong about the specifics of your homeschool mission statement, but having something like this in writing helps you focus on those days when it feels like nothing is getting accomplished. If your home and family are seeking first and foremost to please and glorify the Lord, then you are indeed accomplishing everything that truly matters.
Check out my article on page 24 of the funky flipbook edition of Heart of the Matter Magazine.
Jamie is in her third year of homeschooling, and loving the mostly-Charlotte Mason style she’s chosen. She is a joyfully married wife in a blended family, and knows that absolutely anything good she accomplishes is because of Christ in her. Her days are fueled by the love of her family and many cups of steaming hot tea. Visit her blog Rose Cottage.










This past spring, we finally began doing weekly nature studies. All along, I’ve had good intentions, and we’ve done some lovely nature readings but actually getting OUTDOORS to do our studies just wasn’t happening. I think I was overwhelmed at the multitude of possibilities, and just didn’t know where to begin. Then I stumbled upon Harmony Art Mom’s
Almost all of the nature studies we’ve done have been literally in our own yard. We’ve studied all sorts of plants, flowers, and insects right in our flower garden. One of favorite studies so far was of a weed – the dandelions that dot our lawn! We already knew (from previous weeding attempts) that dandelions have quite long and strong taproots. What we didn’t know is exactly how and why the puffballs that kids love to blow as well as those happy little yellow flowers grow on the same plant.
Nature journals shouldn’t be a chore, either. I keep my own nature journal so I’m not tempted to take over Kathryn’s and dictate what she must put in it. Here’s a bit from The Handbook of Nature Study that really struck me when I read it:
When we did this dandelion study, Kathryn drew an enlarged picture of the dandelion seed, or akene, after examining it with a magnifying glass, and then came up with the idea to also tape a specimen of a real akene on the page next to her drawing. She described how it looked to her, and wrote some of what we learned about the dandelion. It’s fun to include a little poetry into nature study sometimes, too. For this one, she copied a little verse we found about dandelions:


It’s hot outside, and summer is in full swing. For me, summer has always brought to mind vacations at the beach, lazy days at the lake, and a break from school. In other words, relaxation! One of the many reasons I love Charlotte Mason is her emphasis on the importance of leisure time. “Masterly inactivity,” as she called it, is meant to be time spent doing something to refresh mind, body, and soul. It is recreation at its finest: fun, unscheduled, unstructured time to enjoy life and appreciate the wonders of God. Go on a picnic, take time to read or draw, spend an afternoon at the pool, play hopscotch in the driveway, go fishing, or enjoy an evening bike ride together as a family. There are so many wonderful ways to incorporate a little masterly inactivity in your family’s daily lives . . . and summer is a wonderful time to develop this into a habit!
I often hear homeschoolers joke, “I don’t know why they call it home school, because we’re never home!” It is a blessing that there are so many great options for us homeschoolers these days: piano lessons, sports practice, co-op classes, tai kwon do, play dates, etc. The list goes on and on. All good endeavors, but we must be careful not to take on too many. Charlotte Mason cautions against over-scheduling because too much rushing around causes stress for the parents AND the children. When we learn something new, we need time to “digest” all that knowledge before we can actually apply it, so we should alternate our schoolwork and activities with recreation and rest. Children need “downtime” just like we do; they need time to process new thoughts and ideas. This is exactly why “masterly inactivity” is so important. We must prayerfully consider just how much we can schedule and do before we begin to compromise that valuable leisure time – but keep in mind that “too many” will look different for each and every family.
Ouch! I know I’ve been guilty of this, aggravated about how grumpy my child is when my own bad attitude has actually been the cause of it!
Bible study or devotional you love. Go for a stroll, visit an art gallery, or catch up on a few of your favorite blogs. Realistically, some days or weeks might not allow for a whole evening on your own, but a little creative simplification of your schedule should make at least enough time to stroll around the garden, or to enjoy one of my personal favorite activities, savoring a steaming hot cup of tea.





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