Art for the “Art Klutz”

It’s kind of twisted, really.

I love science, but I really don’t like art!  As a nurse, I have a science and math background.  Those are my favorite subjects!   When we did microscope work, I would find myself going back again and again to look through the microscope by myself!

But art…That was a completely different story.

Art was a weak area in my homeschool.  It was one subject that we all had to work at, or it wouldn’t get done.   If we didn’t set aside time for art study it would never happen!   It may sound strange to some, but we never had that problem getting math or science done.  Just art.  You could say that instead of art being a “delight directed” subject, it was simply a “directed” subject.

But I was determined to provide a well-rounded education, even if it meant including this most obnoxious subject.  I carefully scheduled art a few times a week for two hours at a time.  I figured that should be just often enough, and provide enough time to get something done. Even so, it sometimes didn’t happen.

Here is the problem.  Art is messy.

I’m tidy by nature, and art is messy by nature.  We are a mismatch from the beginning.  Art could get my house covered in so many crazy colors.  Art makes a mess.  Art caused stress because my kids just didn’t “get it.”  And art takes so many materials! You have to buy so much stuff just to paint one thing!  The problem for my kids wasn’t so much the mess.  They had NO problem with the mess.  It was just that every minute spent on  art was one less minute doing what they loved; namely, math, science, chess and economics.

We all have weaknesses

I know for certain that art is my nemesis. I tell parents that when you identify your weak area, that’s what you do FIRST.  It’s the first thing you spend money on when you buy curriculum.  It’s the first thing you consider purchasing again when necessary, if your first choice doesn’t work.  It’s the first thing you do each day.   It’s the first thing you get done before going out to a fun event.

Finding the Spark

I never really sparked a love of art.  My boys were simply not interested.  I thought I had it all figured out when we tried pottery.  After all, wouldn’t boys just love playing in the mud?  But no, pottery was also merely tolerated.  At least the mess (I mean “fun”) wasn’t in my house, but still the art idea didn’t take.   I tried teaching art with games: The Impressionists Art Game and the Parker Brothers game called Masterpiece.  They enjoyed playing it because they love to compete against each other, but I’m not sure a purist would call that “art.”

Teaching Art

I knew I would really have to force myself to teach art.  Others may be able to provide art “experiences” but as a true art klutz, I didn’t know how to do that.  For me and my homeschool, I needed curriculum to help me teach that dreaded subject.  When the children were younger, we used the book “Art Fun” the first year.  My children were much more interested in reading the books than actually doing the projects.  Slightly older, I used the curriculum “Feed My Sheep.”  In high school we used “Draw Today.”

Art Defined

One year I realized that colleges wanted to see one year of Fine Arts on a high school transcript.  As an art klutz, I had to go to the dictionary and look up “fine arts” to see what they meant.   The Fine Arts are music, art, theater, and dance. You don’t have to do it all, and you don’t have to do it every year.

My children don’t enjoy drawing, but they tolerate music.   One year I purchased a 10-CD pack of great composers.  Each CD was a different composer. My idea was to have a “composer of the week.” We would just play a CD during lunch and maybe during math. I found portraits of the great composers on the web, that I would print. We read about them, sometimes online and sometimes from library books.  In high school we studied music appreciation with “How to Listen to and Understand Great Music” by The Teaching Company. It was our favorite lecture series. The teacher has a wonderful vocabulary, and my boys would take college level lecture notes in real time, while listening to the wonderful music content.

Do it vs. Study it.

If your kids just “do” art, then maybe you don’t really need to “study” it. We needed to make art a subject, because my kids would never do it otherwise. We used books and curriculum for art history, perspective, and art appreciation. If you aren’t a modern day Michelangelo, don’t despair.  You can give your children a perfectly acceptable appreciation for the arts.  You don’t need to destroy your home or convert the hallway into the Sistine Chapel.  The key is to be flexible and willing to see “Art” in creative (dare I say artistic?) ways.  You can still emerge at the other side with balanced students who will appreciate (if not necessarily create) fine art.

Amazing!

I guess it worked.  Fine Arts was my “great failing” in homeschool high school.  I tried to expose my kids to art during high school but, honestly, it was a pretty pathetic effort.   Fast forward two years.  According to Facebook, here is what my son did one weekend at college:

Alex loved “The Marriage of Figaro” yesterday, went to the Seattle Art Museum today, and is going to “Rhapsody in Blue” at the Seattle Symphony tonight. The pattern is starting to damage my street cred.

Apparently it was successful.  I’m amazed that someone like me, who is “artistically declined”, can raise someone who enjoys the arts so much!

Art klutz parents of the world, unite!

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mother of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool for high school.” Get access to her free one hour training webinar on homeschool credits, grades and transcripts.  She has a free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletters, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her Christian homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper. Get homeschool high school transcript help with her Total Transcript Solution. Get comprehensive help with high school homeschoolers as a member of her Gold Care Club.

Facing the Empty Nest

Toward the end of homeschooling, you start to wonder about the next stage of life. What will you do when you aren’t homeschooling?

I can suggest what NOT to do. I saw a woman at the store who was talking about how bored she was with her life. She had attended FOUR weight watchers meetings during the week, not because she was overweight, but because she was BORED! Although I’m a big fan of weight watchers, I wondered about that. Is that all there is to life?

Give Yourself Away
The first thing I did was become a Board Member of our state homeschool group. That’s a busy job that really benefits a lot of homeschoolers! I also began helping other homeschoolers with my business, beginning almost immediately with my newsletter. How can YOU support other homeschoolers? What can you do to make it easier for the next mother who is stressed out about homeschooling high school?

Give yourself away in new ways, too! I began volunteering regularly at our local clothing bank. It’s a wonderful feeling to do something so concrete and physical that will help truly needy people. And there is nothing that can take your mind away from your own problems more than helping people with even BIGGER troubles!

Get What You Wish For
When I was homeschooling, so many times I had to say “No” to fun things. I had kids at home, I had to get dinner on the table, and there were 13 soccer practices to attend each week! When the kids are gone, now is your time to say “YES!” to the fun things you have put off! My husband and I started singing in our church choir. Evening practices aren’t a hassle at all when you don’t have to find a babysitter!

Make a List
List all the things you wish you could have done over the past few years, because your turn is coming soon. Make a list of things volunteer positions that sound like fun. Make a list of homeschool organizations that you would like to help. Make a list of fun ways you would like to serve your community and your church. After years of serving your family, soon it will be your turn to take care of yourself.

Exercise and Aesthetics
Do you have a box of photos and no time for scrapbooking? Clutter around the house, with no time to organize? Think of all the great crafts you’ll have time for! And when you retire from homeschooling, you can take care of yourself and finally be able to exercise. Just think, you can take a walk AND stop to smell the roses! Here in Seattle, it doesn’t rain all day long, just some of the day. Now I’m able to take walks between raindrops, when it fits my schedule.

Avoid Heartache!
You hear about the empty nest feeling when your children go to college. It’s true – and it’s probably unavoidable. But you can lessen the affects by being active in your community, and giving yourself away! Soon it will be your turn to volunteer, serve, and have fun!

Junior and Senior year of high school are extremely busy times. When you get frustrated, start writing your list. Because your turn is coming, and you can make the best of it!

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper. Get homeschool transcript help with her Total Transcript Solution. Get comprehensive homeschool support as a member of her Gold Care Club.

Surviving the Storms of Adolescence

Luke 8:23-25 Jesus and his disciples are sailing to their next destination, when disaster strikes.

As they sailed, he fell asleep. A squall came down on the lake, so that the boat was being swamped, and they were in great danger. The disciples went and woke him, saying, “Master, Master, we’re going to drown!” He got up and rebuked the wind and the raging waters; the storm subsided, and all was calm. “Where is your faith?” he asked his disciples.

It seemed like a routine sailing

For more than a dozen years you have parented this child, and it feels like you have seen it all. There have been ups and downs, and there is no struggle that is new under the sun. Your child is just your child – and you have adapted.

A sudden squall and great danger

The unexpected happens. Not only is there conflict, but you no longer even recognize your child. Not surprising, because adulthood has begun, and your baby is no longer a child at all. In the midst of this growing up, there is sometimes huge difficulty.

Panic, and beliefs go out the window

Unexpected behaviors, situations and hormones consume your growing child – and overwhelm your ability to rationalize, and cope. Panic. Parents sometimes believe all is lost; game over. Epic fail.

Where is your faith?

This moment in parenting is when you most need your faith. This is where the rubber meets the road! You have to hang on to the fact that you have trained your child is the way they should go, and have faith that they will not depart from it when they are old.

Arrive safely at the shore

God’s promise is that you will arrive at the shore. The crisis will end, and God’s plan for your child’s life WILL come to pass. The Lord controls nature, the wind and waves. Certainly he can control the squall within your child, and work his purposes. His plan for your child was made with the assumptions that this squall would occur – he already knew it would happen. Only the parents are surprised – not God.

Parents sometimes face a difficult time in the storm of adolescence, and their child is unrecognizable due to impending adulthood. This passage urges you to have faith! Don’t give up hope, because all is not lost. The Lord knew in advance this would happen, although He doesn’t necessarily approve of the choices people make from their own free will. But the Lord has made us a promise; Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.

We WILL see the shore. We WILL arrive on the shore safely. No adolescent storm, not matter how dangerous, can thwart the Lord’s plans.

God’s promises are true EVEN WHEN THERE IS A SHIPWRECK. In Acts we read about Paul being shipwrecked. He was in a ship and in danger too, and he STILL completed God’s plan for his life. Paul recognized that even though he did not expect the shipwreck, the Lord already knew it would happen. Paul tried to explain the situation to the others in the ship;

Acts 27:25 So keep up your courage, men, for I have faith in God that it will happen just as he told me.

Adolescent storms happen, and sometimes they can result in a major shipwreck. Keep up your courage, parents! When they are old, they will not depart from your teaching, and it WILL happen the way the Lord has promised.


Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper. Get homeschool transcript help with her Total Transcript Solution. Get comprehensive homeschool support as a member of her Gold Care Club.

Course Description Emergency!

Lisa started making a transcript for her high school senior two weeks before it was due. Although it was a struggle, she managed to complete it on time. Suddenly her world came crashing down, and she contacted me in a panic on Sunday night at 9:00 pm. The subject line screamed “Course Description Emergency!”

She confessed her dire situation. “I just found out that I need to write course descriptions for his college application! I didn’t think I would have to do that, and now all of a sudden I find out they are due tomorrow morning!” She begged me to tell her story. “Please encourage moms to START EARLY!”

How can you write a transcript and twenty to thirty course descriptions?


You can’t – unless you have kept high school records! Record keeping is an important skill. It seems so unrelated to homeschooling, and unnatural for some of us. It has nothing to do with teaching or nurturing. After all, record keeping is the role of school administrator? Oh wait! That’s us!

A few months ago, I was working on a transcript for a high school junior. We went over every subject area, and discussed them in detail, from high school algebra to American Sign Language. Everything was complete. As I was leaving, I asked “What are you doing this weekend?” Mom didn’t hesitate for a moment, but explained that they were going to a Latin competition that weekend.

“Latin?” I said. “You never mentioned Latin!” That was how I discovered that her high school junior had already completed four years of high school Latin, and her mother had completely forgotten about it.

Now it’s not like the four years of Latin was a repressed memory of something horribly traumatic. It was obvious that the student enjoyed it – that’s why she was still competing. But this example illustrates why you want to keep high school records. It’s not just so you don’t forget that your child did a two-week unit study on economics. It’s so you don’t forget broad swaths of learning, like four years of Latin.

Keep high school records so that, when the time comes, you can make a transcript that actually reflects the courses that you taught. Keep records so that you don’t short-change your student. This mother is a very gifted home educator, and has done an exceptional job homeschooling her children, and even SHE forgot four years of Latin.

Never underestimate the human ability to forget! It can happen to anyone! Now let’s talk about record keeping, so you can make sure amnesia doesn’t happen to you.

Four Kinds of Homeschoolers

When it comes to record keeping, I have noticed that there are four kinds of homeschoolers. There are people who keep records in big plastic tubs – “tubbies” I call them. They keep all their records from all of their children in that tub, and it’s a perfectly acceptable method of record keeping.

There are parents who keep records in cupboards, cabinets or drawers. Slightly more organized than tubbies, “cubbies” will usually have one drawer for each child and for each year. This is also a fine method of record keeping, and it has the added benefit of organizing information by year.

Still other parents keep a notebook with their high school records, and it’s also a useful method of keeping records. I am one of these “binder queens,” and will go into depth about how to do this in the next section.

The final type of homeschool parents are the ones I affectionately refer to as “question marks.” When this type of parent hears about record keeping, a question mark will appear over their ever-so-slightly-cocked head as they think to themselves, “Records? Were we supposed to keep records?” This is a method that I do NOT recommend! That’s how you can lose things like four years of Latin, or being an Eagle Scout.

Each homeschool parent can decide which method is best for them. Tubbies keep lots of stuff but lack organization, cubbies keep lots of records with minimal organization, and binder queens have information on every class in an organized fashion. I usually recommend that parents try to get more organized each year. If the first year you are a tubby, try to graduate to a cubby the next year. Move up the food chain!

The Binder Method of Record Keeping

When we first started visiting colleges, I asked what records they wanted me to bring. They said, “Bring them all!” I was astonished, but I did what they wanted. I traipsed into the admission office with 6 binders full of homeschool records – one binder for each year of high school for each child. By the look on their faces, I quickly determined that perhaps they weren’t interested in necessarily SEEING my records; they more just wanted to know that I actually HAD records.

Using a binder system was convenient for me, because I had a convenient place to keep something from every class. If they every wanted to see something from Latin or from Macroeconomics, all I had to do was reach into a binder for a work sample.

What do you actually put IN the binder? My binders were 3 inch, 3 ring binders, each with a creative title like “Kevin 2005-2006.” Inside the binder, I had about twenty dividers that I labeled. In the front I had records that I needed to keep for colleges and for our Washington State laws.

The first section was for the transcript, which I actually made once the year was finished.

Then there were sections for the Declaration of Intent to Homeschool, immunization records, and annual testing records – because those things are required by our State Law. I had a section for their reading list and a list of my kids’ activities and awards. Finally, I had a section divider for each class that I intended to do that year: one for math, English, history, science, etc.

In the beginning of the year, that was all it said: “math.” Later in the year, usually in the spring, I would go back over what we had taught and develop a course description for each class.

I notice that by having a PLACE for records, I actually KEEP records.

Like my bank records, they didn’t often get filed like they were supposed to, but once every couple months, I would methodically take all the papers my children produced and gradually fill in that 3 ring binder. I was able to easily see which sections were filling up, and which sections were blank.

What to Keep

How do you know what records to keep? For some classes it’s relatively simple: keep any tests or papers that they have written, and you’re done! For some classes you may keep their lab reports, research papers, or work sheets.

But some classes don’t have paper assignments. Then what do you do? Last spring, a mother was talking to me about record keeping, and she asked what records she should keep for her child who was learning how to cook at home. The answer is BE CREATIVE! Think methodically about what they DO for the class.

In the cooking example, the mother mentioned that her daughter created a menu, did the shopping, and cooked with recipes. Why not use those for records? Save the menu, the shopping list, and photocopy the recipes that she uses – those are your records for “culinary arts.”

My sons play piano, and I was in a similar dilemma. We didn’t have any reports or homework, so we kept a list of songs they learned to play, the piano books they used, and we saved the programs from their recitals.

There are other ways to keep records. Keep a reading list of every book they buy, use, or read for pleasure. You can keep track of how many hours you spend on subjects that aren’t “bookish.” The credit value of courses like PE, fine arts, and electives may be hard to quantify unless you keep track of hours.

You can keep course descriptions from co-op classes. Some people will photocopy the cover and table of contents from textbooks. Both of those methods will really help if you want to make a course description for your classes. If you write assignments for your kids, or have a schedule for them, keep those things.

You can also do it the opposite way, and instead of writing down what you want them to do in the future, you can write down what they DID do after it’s been completed. This method will help parents who are conscientious, but not into planning ahead.

You can also have the student keep a journal of all their school work. That would have never worked with my kids, but I know it works for others. If they do that, make sure they include every book, assignment and experience. Most students will do some of their work on the computer. You can save all of it, either by printing or saving it to a file.

When to Keep Records

Homeschool records become critical once student begins high school, when they become part of a transcript that will be shown to colleges. How do you know when your child is in high school? In general, public school children are considered high school age at about the age of 14, or once they reach 9th grade.

One of the delightful “problems” with homeschooling is that it isn’t always easy to label your child as a particular grade level. I started keeping records in 7th grade, so that I would train myself to keep records and be competent by the time they were in high school. When my youngest son Alex was 14 years old, he took and passed some CLEP exams (which measure college level learning). This was a strong clue for us that it he was probably already through high school in many subjects!

Because I’d been keeping records to “train myself” we were able to collect enough information to make his transcript when we needed it. If your child is in 7th or 8th grade, consider keeping your homeschool records as if they were already in high school, so that you are prepared for anything as you move forward.

As you are training yourself to keep records, strive to keep SOMETHING to document every subject your kids learn. Keep records often! It’s a rare person who will update records every day, but everyone can put “record keeping” on their calendar every month or two.

Right now, why don’t you decide whether this year you will be a Tubby, Cubby or Binder Queen (or King!) Get prepared now, and then throughout your school year spend some concentrated time on collecting records for your homeschooled high schooler.

A little preparation now will help you avoid your own transcript or course description emergency.

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper.

High School Step-by-Step

Is homeschooling high school an overwhelming task? Instead of looking at the big picture, sometimes it helps to focus on smaller, simpler tasks to achieve your goals. If you just look at the end result, “High School Transcript” or “College Admission,” you may become overwhelmed.

Consider the story in the Bible about Jesus changing water into wine. He didn’t tell the servants to “Change water into wine.” Instead, he gave them three easy steps. Each step was possible and manageable. Read his instructions in John 2:1-11. He gave his servants very small, manageable tasks.

A Step-by-Step Guide to Changing Water Into Wine:

  • Step 1: fill jars with water
  • Step 2: draw some out
  • Step 3: take it to the master

Jesus did not even MENTION the end result. He just gave the steps. In fact it was Jesus who was in charge of the scary end result and final consequences. The servants (that’s us!) only had to handle the small, individual steps. If the servants had focused on changing water into wine, they would have become overwhelmed. Instead, they were simply asked to fill jars. God was in control of the quality of the wine. They just had to do one simple thing at a time. Jesus brought the joy to the event, and he brought the highest quality of wine. He can bring joy and quality to your homeschool as well when you focus on one step at a time.

You will succeed at homeschooling high school, because your child has been given to you – because God knew in advance this day would come. He knew what you needed for this day. Your job is to focus on raising your child today. Keep your eyes on the prize – producing a well-educated and happy grown adult.

I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
~ Philippians 4:13

Do not panic! You are completely capable of doing this! Your child has been given to you – it’s been planned this way forever! You have what it takes to do the work – God promises to strengthen you! This is a completely doable task.

The secret of your success will be the love you have for your child. The love for your child will teach you what they need to know, how they learn, what they are missing, and how to prepare them for the future. Love won’t teach you calculus, but you don’t need to know calculus in order to homeschool high school. Instead, the love for your child will motivate you to find a way for them to learn. Love will urge you to seek resources and curriculum choices that will fit your child.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
~ 1 Peter 4:8

The love you have will cover the difficulties you face. You will fail at some small tasks, because we all fail at small tasks every day. Even high-powered professional executives will fail at small tasks regularly. But we will succeed at the big task: raising and educating our children. Your child has been given to you, so you know you can homeschool high school. You know you are capable, because you have the strength of the Lord behind you. And when small missteps occur, the love of your child will cover you.

You will be successful. Do not be afraid. Take it one step at a time.

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper.

Grading Without Tests

Have you ever wondered….

“What grade do you put on a transcript when you don’t use a test?”

My son Kevin thought my homeschool grades were stupid. “Who’s going to believe the grades my Mom gives me?” he would say. Then he took classes at community college! The professors gave credit for class attendance, participation, discussion, and homework. If the students scored poorly on a test, they were allowed to “drop” one test. A teacher declared that the highest grade on each test was the “100%” grade, and all the other students were graded on a sliding scale. I had won Kevin over! “You were right, Mom! Your grades were a lot tougher than college!”

But how do you give grades to your homeschool student? First of all, if you give a grade based on tests alone, then you are doing your student a disservice. In high schools, as well as in some colleges, students may never be judged based on test scores alone. After all, a test only measures what you DON’T know. We are trying to express what our children DO know. A grade is usually a mix of things, and if we don’t grade with a mix of things as well, we are putting our kids at a disadvantage.

As homeschoolers, we tend to move on after our kids have mastered the material. If you are a parent that sends math problems, English papers, or tests back to the student with “please correct this” messages, then you have high expectations. I recommend that when your student does “meet expectations” that you give them 100% for that test or assignment. If it means you’re giving them a 4.0 in every class, that’s fine – as long as they meet your high expectations.

Now you know that a grade on a test is not the same as a grade on a course. You know that “meets expectations” can mean 100% on evaluation. But how do you give a grade when you don’t give any tests? The key is to think about how you DO evaluate your children. Just between you and me (don’t tell!) the ways we evaluate are often the same things we nag about. Isn’t that a dirty little secret? Consider these phrases: “Are you done with your reading yet?” (Yes? Literature Reading, 100%.) Or “Have you finished your spelling words yet?” (Yes? Spelling Practice, 100%). Sometimes the things that we nag at them NOT to do are also ways that we evaluate. For example, “Kevin, will you PLEASE leave that chessboard alone!” (Daily Chess Practice, 100%) or “Alex, get away from the piano!” (Piano Practice, 100%).

When you think of how you evaluate, think about everything they do that you call “school.” In our homeschool, I only graded tests in math, foreign language, and science. That was mainly a matter of convenience for me – those were the curricula that came with tests! For all 28 of our other classes, I used other ways to evaluate my children. What did they do in their daily work? For English, I decided to evaluate their reading and writing. For reading, I further decided to grade on areas like: reading, discussion, analysis, and research. For writing, I evaluated them on every paper, so I listed each paper by the title or topic (Emancipation Proclamation, for example.)

I didn’t actually “grade” the paper. I just edited it after they wrote it, and sent it back to them for corrections. Once it was done to my satisfaction, then I gave them 100%. Other times, I didn’t list the actual titles of the papers they had written. Instead, I would list the KIND of papers they had written: essay, research report, short story, or poetry. Finally, I decided that the testing they did each year for their annual assessment was also an evaluation. The areas on those tests were “vocabulary, comprehension, spelling, mechanics, and expression.” For each of those items, they scored grade level or above, which met my expectations (yup, another 100%!) Our no-tests English 2 grade looked like this:

Notice that every way I evaluated them, which met my expectations, received 100%. If you have trouble viewing these charts, you can go to my website, www.TheHomeScholar.com.

What areas do you use when you evaluate your children? You can give a grade for each test, quiz, paper, or lab report. Consider also these general ideas: reading, reports, discussion, research, daily work, oral presentation, composition, practice, performance, note taking, attendance, and narration. You may want to give a grade for each activity they complete within a course. For example, you could give a grade for every activity you count as PE hours: swim team, skiing, soccer, free weights, health, and softball. For music, you might want to give a grade for lessons, practice, and performance. In history, you could give a separate grade for each report, paper, or essay they wrote on historical topics.

I did keep traditional grades in Biology – mostly because Apologia Curriculum provides tests. Even so, my students did more for that course than just take a test, and I wanted that reflected in their grade. I supplied a numerical percentage grade for each test, grading as suggested by the curriculum supplier. The other major activity in that course was their science lab. I decided to give them a grade for every science lab they completed. If they met expectations, their grade was 100%. They didn’t always meet my expectations, however. When my kids did a lab write-up, I expected them to give me a paragraph describing what they did, along with a diagram, chart, or sketch of the experiment. There were times that I felt they hadn’t done their best. At times, I would give them 80%, or 90%, depending on my mood. Yes, it was arbitrary! But they had NOT met my expectations, and I wanted their grade to reflect that. Our Biology grade looked like this:

“Mom knows best” sometimes means that a grade will be a “B” or lower. When you honestly know that your child has performed at a lower than “A” level, don’t be afraid of how it will look on a transcript. Honesty will always serve our children best, and a B can demonstrate thoughtful consideration of your grades. It says that all your grades are real, and you have considered each one carefully. There are times when your honest grade will include a B (or lower) on a test, or paper. Make sure that the total grade on the transcript will accurately reflect everything your student does, and every area that you evaluate their work. If they have an “A” for effort in a variety of ways (discussion, daily work, narration, research, lab work, etc.) be sure to include everything they do. In the end, if the transcript grade is still less than an “A” then go ahead and write it down. There is no permanent damage from that! If it’s honest, write it down.

I know that my grading system is one of many “right ways” to do things. As the parent, you can decide the “right way” to grade your homeschool. I’m giving you this glimpse into my homeschool evaluations, because I think it really helps to see what someone else has done. This is just a sample for you to look at and adapt for yourself. When I started thinking about transcripts, I loved seeing every sample I could find!

At times it’s appropriate to show the nuances of your grades to a college, and you want to demonstrate that your “homeschool 4.0″ is not a number pulled out of thin air. You want to demonstrate thoughtful consideration to the ways you evaluated your student. You want to show your standards and your method of grading. Then let the college decide how they will use the grades, knowing that you did your very best to provide them with the information they need. Homeschool grading is an art, not a science. Don’t feel like you have to do everything exactly the way I did. Remember! Mom and Dad know best – especially how to evaluate their own children. You can do this! And I’m here to help!

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper.

Can’t You Work for Even an Hour?

Oops.  I got distracted.  I was having my morning quiet time, when suddenly the dog needed to go out.  There are some things that just can’t wait.  But 15 minutes later I realize I’m sitting in front of Facebook, and I never finished my quiet time.  I know many of you can relate.  Ironically, I happened to be studying this passage in Mark:

Mark 14:37-41

Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. “Simon,” he said to Peter, “are you asleep? Could you not keep watch for one hour? Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.”

Once more he went away and prayed the same thing. When he came back, he again found them sleeping, because their eyes were heavy. They did not know what to say to him.

Returning the third time, he said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Enough! The hour has come. Look, the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners.

Apparently Jesus’ disciples also fell into temptation, became lazy, and didn’t do what was expected. It happens to me fairly often, even though I’m a hard-working person with good intentions and follow-through. Nobody would accuse me of being inattentive.  When I look back on my day, and can see what I have accomplished.  I rarely make a note of the 10 minutes wasted here or there.  Or the hour spent “relaxing” before I do anything truly productive.

Does that ever happen to you?  I know some parents get distracted by Facebook, Twitter, Farmville, homeschool catalogs, crafts, novels, recipes, yardwork…What distracts you?  Do you get distracted even though you know you should be doing something else?

OK, now let’s take a step back.  Do your children ever get distracted?   Is your child the “Peter” that can’t pay attention to Jesus (or their school work) even for a single hour?

All have sinned and fallen short at times.  When your child is distracted and doesn’t work hard at their math assignment, or forgets to complete an essay, or daydreams during their studying, they are NOT alone.  It doesn’t mean they are bad children who shouldn’t be homeschooling and would function better in a school setting.  It doesn’t mean they have character issues any more than you and I have character issues.  It simply means they need help focusing.
Our job is to help them focus, and teach them how to recognize when they are being distracted so we can help them find strategies to get focus again.  And yet we shouldn’t expect them to be MORE focused than we are.  Yes, school is important and they should focus 100% of the time, but our job at home is ALSO important and WE should focus 100% of the time.

But we fail. So do our kids. Give them a break, just as you give yourself a break.  They aren’t bad, lazy, incapable, failing students – they are human.  Keep trying.  That’s what adults do; we keep trying.  Help your teens learn to keep trying too.

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper. Get homeschool transcript help with her Total Transcript Solution. Get comprehensive homeschool support as a member of her Gold Care Club.

Teach Your Kids to Write a Quick Essay

501 Writing Prompts is a great book for teaching the skill of writing a short essay quickly. We used 501 Writing Prompts regularly through Junior year. First I showed them the video on essay writing, from the “Advanced Communication Series.” That step is not necessary if your child already knows how to write a short essay, but I wanted my children to have an overview.

Once the skill was taught, we started practicing. More difficult than learning “how” is the actual “doing.” Three days a week, right after lunch, I would give them a pencil and two pieces of notebook paper. I handed them a writing prompt from the book, and set the timer for 25 minutes. They knew they needed to write a brief, perhaps 5 word outline, on scratch paper. Then they had to start writing. At 25 minutes, I took the paper away, whether they were done or not. We did that three days a week for the entire Junior year.

True confessions time: I didn’t grade the essays, my husband did. The book does make grading easy, because it has so many visual examples of what a good essay will look like. All their writing prompts with visual examples are in bold. Here is a link to the book: 501 Writing Prompts.

The book has examples of what an essay SHOULD look like – and what it shouldn’t. It shows “perfect” essays, with a score of 6, an average essay with a score of 4, and a really rotten essay with a score of 1. You can use the rubric provided on page 19, but I did better having a visual example. For that reason, it can be easier to start by using JUST the bold essay prompts until you become familiar with what a good essay looks like.

For grading, my husband simply circled problems with punctuation, grammar, and spelling. He wrote “more” or “I’m confused” or “poor organization” on the margin. More true confessions: my husband is not perfect, and he is not a perfect grader. I was looking for a writing example to put on the Gold Care Club last week, and I found out some shocking details. My kids would misspell words in those essays, and my beloved never spotted those misspelling! To be quite honest, we learned at a certain point my kids became better spellers than my husband. My children are excellent writers now, even though their teacher does not spell well! I guess that just points out that you don’t have to be a perfect grader or perfect evaluator to give valuable feedback.

I think that learning to write a quick essay is important, for college and for life. I also think it probably is learned best through practice. However your kids can get that practice, is the best thing to prepare them for the essay on the college admission tests, in college essay exams, and the essays that adults face (from Christmas cards to job applications.)

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper.

Sad Days, Promise Days and Blessed Days

Sometimes I have a “sad day.”

Those are days when I am faced with Romans 3:23:

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.

It is on those days I recognize the small or large problems with my now-grown children. Did I really forget to teach them that sleep is important? Have I failed them completely because they throw out Tupperware instead of washing it? “Sad days” are a good time to reflect a bit, fast, and pray. “Sad days” are usually followed by a promise from the Lord.

A “promise day” is when I hold to the promise in Proverbs 22:6:

Train up a child in the way he should go, and WHEN HE IS OLD he will not turn from it.

Sadly, there is no mention of regular sleep OR Tupperware in the verse. Perhaps that means it’s optional or even not required at all. Maybe what it means is that our children get to grow up and make their own decisions. They get to choose when to sleep, and what to throw out. In fact, there are a HUGE number of things they will choose to do or not do, regardless of how well we train them in the way we should go. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that their decisions won’t always be my decisions.

My friends with older children tell me there is yet another kind of day I will face, a “blessed day.”

A “blessed day” is mentioned in Proverbs 31:28:

Her children arise and call her blessed.

I confess. There are gaps in my children’s education.

I may have skipped the unit study on sleep. I think I only demonstrated the washing of Tupperware, without actually mentioning circumstances when it is appropriate to throw it away. We have to get used to gaps like that. My husband once had an enthusiastic young engineer who was really trying to do a good job. When Matt asked him one morning how he was doing, he replied. “I’m diligent, sir. Diligent and dedicated!”

I can relate to this. I always wanted to homeschool in a diligent and dedicated way. But the truth is nobody can really be diligent enough because children will grow up to make their own choices. As parents, we can’t possibly think of everything and every situation that our children may get themselves into.

It’s a sad day. Tomorrow will be a promise day. One day I’ll get to that blessed day. That will be fun!

Lee Binz is a veteran homeschooling mom of two and the owner of The HomeScholar, “Helping parents homeschool through high school.” She has a new free minicourse called “The 5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School”. You can sign up for her free email homeschool newsletter, The HomeScholar Record and get your daily dose of wisdom via e-mail from her homeschool blog, The HomeScholar Helper.