As Christian moms, good intentions are not enough when it comes to nurturing the spiritual development of our children. Without being aware of the role we are responsible to God to fulfill as moms, the years can fly by and our good intentions can get buried by the blur of everyday life. We need to be determined to develop personal mommy habits that help us create a “nurturing plan” based on our good intentions.

One of the most important habits you and I can develop as Christian moms is to be aware of our responsibility to God to train up our children in the knowledge and words of God. But from that, we also need to be ACUTELY aware that we cannot do it in our own abilities or strength (just in case you haven’t already figured that one out)! We can have the best-laid plans with all the good intentions to fill a lifetime but only God’s grace is enough to supply what we need in order to do what we have been called to do as mommies.
I love this Scripture found in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. In this passage, Paul is sharing with the Corinthians that he had been given a thorn in the flesh to keep him from exalting himself. He asked God three times to take it away (just a side note here, I applaud Paul for only asking three times!). God then tells Paul this in verses 9-10:
“9 And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.”
When you are weak and imperfect, His power is perfected! His grace works through our weakness and imperfections to show His glory! Isn’t that amazing? We can stop worrying about being perfect when it comes to being a mom. If you and I really want our children to see God’s glory in our everyday lives, we can lay our weaknesses and imperfections at God’s feet and let His grace shine through us! This is a huge relief! It’s really NOT all up to us – we simply need to be a willing and obedient vessel. That starts with you and me continually being aware of our entire dependence on God to do this thing called parenting!
Did you know you are being watched? I’m certain you have a story to tell about when your darling offspring ratted you out to the stranger in the grocery store line about the fight you had with your husband or the name you called the telemarketer when you got off of the phone! Yes, we are being watched and whether we know it or not, they ARE taking notes. When you see your wonderful chip-off-the-old-block act EERILY like you in a given situation, usually a bad one, you will know that notes have been taken and filed away. You shake your head in a mixture of amazement, disbelief and humility when you recognize yourself in their “reenactments”. This is why we must rely on God’s grace and be aware every day that we are a living, breathing, walking example to them in everything we do – the good, the bad, the ugly…and the unmentionable!
Share with us a story of when you realized your child was watching you or when you noticed they were acting like you!!
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Tara McClenahan is a devoted mom to a two-year-old “little man” and enjoys discovering how God has “packed his suitcase”. As an associate with iBloom, she has a heart for inspiring, encouraging and equipping moms to become “Proverbs 31 mamas” and raise their children according to Biblical principles and guidelines using the Bible and other tools. Tara adores falling leaves, sweatshirts, Starbucks White Chocolate Mochas and the first curly BBQ chip from the bag! Make sure to visit Tara’s website to download your free Christian mom resource!





















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