Putting the Homeschool Cart Before the Horse

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge…” Proverbs 1:7

I started attending our local homeschool conference when my oldest child was 22 months old, and I am so glad I did! At that point, my husband and I were not looking for information on the nuts and bolts of teaching different subjects, but rather inspiration on the visionary aspects of homeschooling – the big picture.

Our firstborn is “one smart cookie”. At 22 months, he knew the alphabet backward and forward, could count to some fairly large number, and talked like a five year old. I was understandably proud of my little genius and was constantly looking for ways to increase his scholastic abilities.

That first homeschool greatly changed my focus. I attended a workshop by Marilyn Boyer, and she described her firstborn just as mine was. She then went on to explain how important it is to take advantage of those formative years to fill their little hearts and minds with Scripture, rather than being so concerned about cramming in “academics”. And she gave many practical examples of how to do this, which you can check out through the link on her name.

I went home pumped! I taught my little 22 month old his first Bible verse – 1 John 4:16 “God is love”. And we began to memorize a Bible verse just about every week. I am SO thankful that we changed our main focus early on! Now, six years later, our children have stored up so much of God’s Word in their little hearts, and He promises that His Word will not return void!

Here are some ways that we have made the Bible a priority for our homeschool.

As soon as they are old enough to repeat words, we begin teaching them to memorize Scripture. We start with little verses like 1 John 4:16, and Psalm 34:8 – “Taste and see that the Lord is good.” Another one they learn as soon as possible is Ephesians 6:1 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.”

In order to facilitate this learning process for the littlest ones, I like to take a piece of construction paper and write the verse faintly in pencil, then help them trace over the words with a marker. I say each letter as we trace it, so they are actually learning “academics” while focusing on God’s Word! We decorate their construction paper and hang it on the bedroom wall. Their bedroom wall is now wallpapered with God’s Word! It is great! It may not be your idea of classy interior decorating, but I love having it always visible and available for constant review. Often, before bed, we choose a few verses to go over. And if any of the children are afraid at night, I encourage them to look at the verses on their wall and think about them instead of thinking about whatever is making them afraid. It works like a charm!

Another thing I have done that makes memorizing the Bible super easy for children and adults alike is to put the verse to music. I often use simple tunes from other songs, like the verse “God is Love”, I put to the tune of “He is Lord”. Sometimes I make up a simple tune that fits the verse. If I can’t think of any tune, I ask the Lord to help me think of one, and He does! I am no musician by any stretch of the imagination, but I believe the Lord has helped me think of a tune in order to facilitate the teaching of His Word to my children. I also include the reference inside the song so that in future years they will be able to call to mind not only the content of the verse, but also where to find it. I know that as a child, I memorized a lot of verses, but I often have a hard time recalling the reference!

If, however, you draw a blank when it comes to a tune for the verse, there are resources that have already done that job for you! Steve Greene has two CD’s (also available in DVD) called “Hide Them in Your Heart“. No Greater Joy has a CD called “ABC Bible Songs” that my children really enjoy. And I am sure there are others.

For my two older children now, rather than decorating construction paper, I have them write their verses in a copywork book and make an illustration of it. These illustrations have been so revealing of what the Lord is teaching them through the verse! I am always excited to see what they are going to come up with! Here is an example I blogged about a couple of years ago. They really take pride in their copywork books and often look back on them, which is also fabulous review! This is also their handwriting practice, so again, they are getting the “academics”, while keeping the focus where it should be – on God’s Word.

Now, beyond memorizing verses, once my children got old enough to start more formal homeschooling, we continued to strive to keep the Bible as the cornerstone of our day. One practical way to make it a priority is to make it the first thing we do each day. I want to put the MOST time and energy into teaching my children the Bible, even if nothing else gets done academically. Of course, academics are also important, don’t get me wrong. But I wish to ingrain in my children the absolute necessity of God’s Word for life.

I often tell them this as we begin, “Let’s start with Bible, because that is THE most important thing in our lives!” Or sometimes I say,

“If we didn’t eat today, our bodies would begin to feel weak, and they would begin to get sick if we went even longer without eating. That is how our spirits are too! We need to continually feed on God’s Word in order to keep our spirits strong and healthy!”

And don’t forget to make it FUN! I want to impart a LOVE for God’s Word to my children. I think more of this is caught than taught.


If your children see you loving and treasuring God’s Word, enthusiastic about reading it daily on your own, being passionate in the way you talk to them about it, and serious about living it in your personal life and in your home, they will be far more likely to love God’s Word too! I believe this is why God says in Deut 6:6-9 that God’s Word must first be in YOUR hearts (the parents), in order to be able to teach them to your children:

“These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” (emphasis mine)

There are many good Bible curriculums out there that you can use for your homeschool. You can also put your own together with what you have available already or, like me, what you find at used curriculum sales! If you need a few ideas to get your creative juices flowing, I blogged about what we did two years ago for our Bible curriculum HERE. We wrapped up that study with a lapbook, which we still use for review too! You can see pictures of the lapbook HERE.

And this year we are doing a study of Proverbs that I put together, and we are loving it! I love that I am learning right along with the children and the Lord continues to teach me as I teach them.

Even though I blogged about it in one of the links above, I want to draw special attention to the Scripture Memory System that I learned from the Simply Charlotte Mason site. What a brilliant idea! Once you have learned quite a few verses or passages of Scripture, it is an absolute must to continue reviewing with your children in order to keep them fresh in their hearts, and yours. This is the very best way I have come across to easily and painlessly keep reviewing every single verse we have memorized once every month. I highly recommend it!

If you would like more encouragement, more vision, and more creative how-to ideas on keeping your homeschool Bible-centered, I would encourage you to procure a copy of Robin Sampson’s most excellent book, Heart of Wisdom.

So, don’t let time pass you by! Take advantage of your children’s soft hearts and malleable minds that are as absorbent as little sponges to soak up God’s Word.

Above all other scholastic studies, help them hide a treasury of God’s Word in their hearts, following Deuteronomy 6:6-9 in the most practical and literal way possible in your homeschool. It will not return void!!!

Elizabeth Tsukayama is a homeschool graduate homeschooling the next generation! She and her husband, Fabio (yes, that is his real name!), have four beautiful children ages 7 down to 1. Elizabeth enjoys many hobbies, but her favorite one is teaching her children and learning with them, especially using hands-on projects, lapbooks, notebooking and nature exploration. The Tsukayama family is currently packing up to travel to Brazil for missions. Life never ceases to be an adventure! You can check out her site at: www.mamaknowsbest.net.

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Three Steps to Overcoming Homeschool Fears

Are you constantly worried about your homeschooling? Do you fretfully ask questions such as “Am I doing enough?” “What about…?” “What if…?”

God is sufficient for every situation we will ever encounter. Because of His abundant goodness, kindness, and love for us, we do not have to be anxious or worry.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.(Philippians 4:6-8)

Fear comes from trusting in your own ability. God has called you to homeschool and He will direct your paths. Instead of trusting yourself your focus and dependence should be on God’s promises and ability.

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith… James 1:5-6)

When you delight yourself in Him, He will direct your paths. God guarantees His Word and fulfills His promises. It is when we remind ourselves of all He has done, and recognize all He is doing in our lives, that our faith grows.

Fear and faith cannot operate at the same time

Fear and faith cannot operate at the same time—they are mutually exclusive. You cannot wait on God to direct your path and then sit around and worry that He won’t.

Three Steps to Building Homeschool Confidence

  1. Believe God’s promise
  2. Use sound strategy
  3. Call on the Lord in prayer

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These three steps come from the book of Joshua, the story of how God led the Israelites in the conquest of Canaan.

The lessons in Joshua explain how choosing obedience brings victory and blessing, and how disobedience brings defeat. Joshua was commanded to rid the land of the Canaanites. After the battle of Jericho, the Israelites defeated Ai.

The news of Joshua’s victories reached the Gibeonites. In their fear, the Gibeonites came up with a plan. They pretended that they came from a far away place (outside of Canaan) and wanted to make peace with the children of Israel. Joshua and his men believed them because of the way they looked (walking by sight/in the flesh), and because they did not ask for God’s advice—two big mistakes.

Joshua made a treaty with the Gibeonites and then had to keep his promise to not kill the Gibeonites (once an oath was taken, it could not be revoked). However, he made them slaves. Adonizedec, a Canaan king, heard that the Gibeonites had made peace with Joshua; so he sent word to the other kings and asked for help to kill the Gibeonites. The Gibeonites appealed to Joshua to deliver them from Adonizecec (Joshua 10:6–10). God reassured Joshua that He was with him and the Israelites would win (Joshua 10:7–8).

When the battle began, God sent hail stones to fall on their enemies. He granted Joshua’s request, and the sun stood still until they had defeated their enemies!

Joshua’s Plan for Success
Three elements combined to give Joshua success in this battle in Joshua 10.

  1. Believing God’s promise (v. 8)
  2. Using sound strategy (v. 9)
  3. Calling on the Lord in prayer (vv. 10–15)

1. Believing God’s Promise

The Israelites didn’t have to be afraid because God had already promised them victory—and you don’t have to fear either, because God has promised to direct your paths. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths (Proverbs 3:5–6). When we live by faith in God and in His promises, we can expect to receive God’s help.

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2. Using Sound Strategy

I’m not suggesting that you run your homeschool on a whim, but to create your plan with prayer and submission to God.

Leaning on God does not negate self-discipline or forming good habits. God has always been working in your life, from before the time you were first formed in your mother’s womb. He has been preparing you, just as Joshua was prepared many years for what would belong to him. You will need to plan, but allow time for a variety of unplanned activities; keep some flexible time in your schedule to meet your children’s needs and delights; in other words, schedule by faith.

I use the Heart of Wisdom plan that includes a framework and objectives with structure and flexibility. This four-year plan is a framework you can use as a guide as you schedule your curriculum and time by faith. There are other plans and frameworks available or you can create your own. Just remember the Lord wants us to be dependent upon Him not on a homeschool method or program.

3. Calling on the Lord in Prayer

D. L. Moody said, “Every great movement of God can be traced to a kneeling figure.” Prayer is your first step in planning and the first step in daily Bible study. Use Colossians 1:9–12 as a guide. Ask God:

  • To fill you with the knowledge of His will through all spiritual wisdom and
    understanding;
  • That you would bear fruit in every good work;
  • That you would grow in the knowledge of God;
  • That you would be strengthened with all power according to His glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience; and
  • That you would joyfully give thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light.

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Faith begets more faith.

Developing faith is much like developing muscles; our muscles grow stronger as we use them, and become weaker when we don’t use them. Faith comes from prayer and learning about God’s ways through studying and obeying His Word; it is through these exercises that we receive the confidence and peace that God gives when we trust Him.

Faith is something we must practice continuously. It is a continuing cycle. The more you turn to God, the more your faith is strengthened.

We’ll also know our dependence is on God when we trust He will bring us through difficult times with deeper intimacy and greater faith at the end.

Homeschool Prayer

Father, give me wisdom and grace to be a teacher of my children. Fill me with the knowledge of Your will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding; fill my heart with Your love and Your Word. Help me daily teach by example that Your Word should be priority over the things of this world.

Give me strength according to Your glorious might so that I may have great endurance and patience. Help me be diligent and wise to teach these children Your Word as You command. Help me persevere in Your ways, Your love and presence. Make my life an example, an influence as I educate these children for you. Keep my eyes on You, on Your vision, Your plans, and Your purposes for our family.

robinRobin Sampson has been homeschooling for 20 years. She and her husband Ronnie are blessed with a “yours, mine, and ours” blended family of eleven children (ages 6 to 34) and thirteen grandchildren (ages 1 to 12). She is actively teaching the two youngest children still at home. Robin is the author of the Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach and a business owner. Please visit her at www.heartofwisdom.com.

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Homeschooling Conference

We are busy little bees planning our 2009 online homeschool conference for August. We’ve begun lining up speakers and are thrilled to announce this year’s conference includes such speakers as Andrew Pudewa, Debbie Strayer, Linda Hobar, Marybeth Whalen, Sarita Holzmann, Sheila Wray Gregoire, Amy Bayliss, Sue Patrick, Lee Binz, Carol Topp, and Debbie Maubach.

We will begin taking registrations early next month but for now we would like to offer you the chance to purchase the audios from the 2008 Heart of the Matter Online Parenting and Home Education Conference

Sessions include:

  1. Homeschooling For Beginners by Amy Bayliss
  2. Simplify Your Homeschool by Amy Bayliss
  3. Finding Quiet Time byKendra Fletcher
  4. Hands on History byAmy Pak
  5. Teaching With Timelines by Amy Pak
  6. A Novel Idea: How Living Books Teach by Sarita Holzmann
  7. Beginning Homeschooling (or beginning again) With The End In Mind by Lori Lane
  8. Bringing Integrated Arts Related Instruction Into Your Homeschool byLori Lane
  9. Fear Not byJennifer Steward
  10. There is a Teacher Inside of You, Let Her Out by Jennifer Steward
  11. How to Keep Your Child’s Natural Desire to Learn Alive by Ami Brainerd
  12. Used Curriculum Shopping byDeeDee
  13. Teaching Toddlers to Teens by Terri Johnson
  14. Teaching Boys and Other Children Who Would Rather be Making Forts All Day by Andrew Pudewa
  15. Making a Transcript by Lee Binz
  16. College Preparation byLee Binz
  17. Setting Goals for Your Homeschool by Sheila Wray Gregoire
  18. Drilling for the Basics by Sheila Wray Gregoire
  19. Overcoming Homeschool Fear by Robin Sampson
  20. The Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach by Robin Sampson
  21. I’d Be a Great Homeschooler if it Weren’t for These Kids by Marybeth Whalen
  22. Cultivating Creativity by Marybeth Whalen
  23. The Mystery of History by Linda Hobar
  24. Homeschooling with Joy by Jeannie Fulbright
  25. How to Prepare Your Children for Emotional Purity by Heather Paulsen
  26. Blogging for Dummies by Dawn and Heather
  27. Surviving the Homeschool Fog: Destressing Yourself by Dawn and Heather
  28. Homeschooling with Autism by Angela DeRossett
  29. Homeschooling, Family, and Work: Balancing it all by Leah Nieman

If you have any questions just email us at conference@heartofthemattermagazine.com.

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Week 3: 8 Ways to a More Organized Homeschool Carnival

Welcome back to the THIRD week of our 8 Ways to a More Organized Homeschool Carnival. This has been such a blast and I hope you all are learning just as much as I am. Week #3 is all about organizing your school schedule.

Remember, anyone can submit! We welcome posts, old and new. Everyone who submits a post will be entered for a chance to win an amazing prize package, currently valued at over $100!

  • Lisa from Stretch Mark Mama asks “Do you ever feel like you’re running a circus instead of teaching a class?” Here is her sample schedule that shows how to keep three “rings” going at once.
  • Mrs. Cuddles from Cuddles on the Couch shares her Philosophy which, for her, is the beginning of the process to work out a schedule. Knowing where her focus should be (Biblically) helps her put together a school schedule.
  • Nikki Hinkle from Angels of Heart gives us a peek at her personal planner and how she organizes paper work.
  • Kristen from A Day in the Life writes about why she makes a schedule, their daily schedule, and what others should consider when making their own schedule.

Don’t forget to send us your submissions for next week’s carnival: Organize your records: grades, tests, attendance, etc. Due by 3/25, posted 3/27. When submitting, please remember to follow the requested format explained here.

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Week 2: 8 Ways to a More Organized Homeschool Carnival

Welcome back to the second week of our 8 Ways to a More Organized Homeschool Carnival. Remember, anyone can submit! We welcome posts, old and new. Everyone who submits a post will be entered for a chance to win an amazing prize package, currently valued at over $100!

Week #2 is all about organizing your morning. Do you need a unique morning routine that helps you jump start your day? Do you have a desire to begin a special morning devotional time with the Lord? What about completing chores and breakfast, all the while making sure you and your family are getting off to a good start. If you need some tips for all these areas and more…you’ve come to the right place!

Bethany LeBedz from Confessions of an Organized Homeschool Mom provides a light-hearted reminder that we really can’t do it all and that even though it looks good on paper, it doesn’t always work itself out in real life.

Lisa from Stretch Mark Mama recognizes that figuring out what to serve for breakfast each morning can tax an already over-taxed brain. Use a simple rotation schedule and let it become The Breakfast Law!

‘The Crazy Mom’ at Ramblings from the Crazy House writes about the morning routine at The Crazy House and how she makes sure it all gets done, despite the craziness!

Mrs. Cuddles from Cuddles on the Couch confesses that she is NOT a morning person and shares how simplicity in their morning routine helps her feel better about what she is able to accomplish.

Molly Green from Econobusters shares her invaluable tips, and reminds us that: Being organized is by far one of the most time saving and money saving things you can do for your family. People need the stability of organization and it always makes the days run more smoothly.

Brenda Sain from The Ties that Bind Us shares details about their morning routine.

Catherine Martin from Adventures in Domesticity reveals a few minutes of organizational light in a day of chaos.

Tammy from Garden Glimpses gives us an early bird’s morning routine that has kept their days running smoothly through the years.

Christin from Journey to a Gracious Woman writes about her plan for a structured morning routine.

Nikki Hinkle from Angels of Heart shares how she prepares her day before it comes so the days flow smoothly.

Kristen from A Day in the Life reflects on mornings in her home and how they are finding middle ground between a rigid schedule and disorganization.

Erin from Delighting in His Richness reveals what makes her mornings get moving the best…when she starts with God’s Word, makes expectations clear, writes down the schedule, and stays off the computer.

Robin Sampson from Heart of Wisdom writes about the most important part of their morning: time with God and nourishment for the soul.

Don’t forget to send us your submissions for next week’s carnival: Organize your school schedule: schedules on paper, reviews of planners, time allotted for subjects, etc. Due by 3/18, posted 3/20. When submitting, please remember to follow the requested format explained here.

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Week 1: 8 Ways to a More Organized Homeschool Carnival

Welcome to the first week of our 8 Ways to a More Organized Homeschool Carnival. Remember, anyone can submit! We welcome posts, old and new. Everyone who submits a post will be entered for a chance to win an amazing prize package, currently valued at over $100! Week #1 is all about organizing your physical space.  So if you need help cutting clutter, discovering new ways to store books and supplies, and more…you’ve come to the right place!

Brenda Sain from The Ties that Bind Us shares how she organizes all her homeschool books in her post Are you a Crazy Book Lovin’ Mama?.

‘The Crazy Mom’ at Ramblings from the Crazy House writes about finding more storage space in your home.

Misty from The Basics of Life shares her best clutter solutions for paper, recycling, books, magazines, and toys.

Nikki Hinkle from Angels of Heart provides organizational tips to help your school run more smoothly.

Tammy from Garden Glimpses shares the design and system that works for her family in her post Everything in its Place.

Robin Sampson from Heart of Wisdom shows us how she organizes the bookshelves with canvas containers and crates.

Nikowa from Knowledge House Academy gives tips on how to organize computer files and clear up harddrive space in Organize Your Life Online.

Kristen from A Day in the Life gives advice on organizing homeschool supplies.

Molly Green from Econobusters shares some ideas for taming the book monster in our homes.

Marybeth Whalen from Cheaper By The Half Dozen shares some of her organizational methods for moving into a new house in her post Things That Make Me Smile.

Lynn from Learning By Living inspires us with pictures of her very organized schoolroom.

Lisa from Stretch Mark Mama shares a portable storage method for those who school all over the house.

Julie from Octamom encourages us on how to adjust to not-so-ideal or temporary homeschool rooms.

Karen from Candid Diversions shares her tried-and-true tips for conquering clutter.

Tammy from Three Different Directions give us her top three ‘clean sweep’ tips.

From dining room tables to couches to desks, would you like to see some more pictures of where homeschoolers do “school”?

Amy from Milk and Cookies

Amy from In Pursuit of Proverbs 31

Lisa from Pockets of Time

Liz from Little Hearts, Little Minds

TeacherMom from Tolle Lege Academy

Kathy from My Quivers Full

Elena from My Domestic Church

Cheryl from Homeschool Journey

Lorraine  from Aprendemos Academy

Don’t forget to send us your submissions for next week’s carnival, organize your morning: morning routine, time with God, chores, breakfast, getting off to a good start, etc. Due by 3/11, posted 3/13.

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Guess what you are missing…

Did you know that HOTM now has a forum? We would love if you would join us and share in some of the discussions we’ve got going on.

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  • Here is your chance to chat with and ask questions of some of the homeschooling community’s top experts, including Lee Binz, founder of the The HomeScholar, who can answer all your high school and college questions; and Robin Sampson, author of Heart of Wisdom.
  • Do you have advice on items that you CANNOT live without when homeschooling middle schoolers? Please stop by and share your tips.
  • Moms of teen boys…did you wake up one morning and discover your son had FACIAL HAIR? Come and commiserate.
  • Find out which mysterious HOTM writers had childhood crushes on the 2 Coreys (remember them?), Spock, and Wesley Crusher from Star Trek.
  • Things are always fun with To Love, Honor, and Vacuum author Sheila Wray Gregoire around! Bounce on over to the Marriage section of the forum and share how you carve out special times for your spouse. We are also discussing how to help our husbands understand that we are just built differently.
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January 2009 Edition

Digital Magazine

We are very excited to announce that you can now view our magazine in THREE ways:

  1. Click here to be taken to the flipbook version, where you can click and turn the pages as you would a print magazine. Be sure to turn your sound on.
  2. Click here to download the magazine in pdf format.
  3. Click here and scroll down to view the articles in blog format.

Heart of the Matter celebrates our first birthday today.  Has it been a year already? Wow! It most certainly has.  We’ve come a long way and have so much yet to look forward to. Thank you for being a part of it.

One year ago I could not have imagined the outcome of this little “project.” We just wanted to help homeschooling parents to have access to as much as we could provide without having a price tag attached. After all, we are parents too and we know how far a dollar and a little bit of encouragement goes. Through the transitions and phases we have seen the ever present hand of God moving and gently crafting together His vision right before our eyes. We are simply funnels that He chose alongside a team of the most talented and gifted writers and speakers in the homeschool community. It is truly an awesome adventure that I am thrilled to be able to be a part of.

I remember watching my children grow in the womb and thinking day after day, “God when will this baby be born?” Yet, I’d treasure every day that I had him to myself. I knew that once he was born I’d have to share him but I was also anxious to meet him face to face and have all my questions about who he was answered. Then after he was born I looked forward to each milestone, each step, each experience, and each day with gladness and anticipation. I don’t yet know the man he will grow up to be but I just trust God each and every day to guide me as to how to train him, mold him, and care for him. It is a lot like how Amy and I view Heart of the Matter.  A precious gift that causes us to trust God so that we can nurture, care for, mold and shape according to His will. We pray that it will always remain about Him and His people and never about any of us. Please join us in prayer for that.

Our ongoing prayer to God is that you would all develop the kind of relationship with your family that God intended. May you and your family be richly and wonderfully blessed in 2009!

In This Issue:
A Day in the Life of Homeschooling Boys by Darcy (Life With My 3 Boybarians)
A Glimpse into My Homeschool Life by The Nester
An Unplanned Delight-Directed Homeschool Day by Robin Sampson
Common Sense Solutions: Stress Free Writing by Dr. Ruth Beechick and Debbie Strayer
Family Traditions by Karin Katherine
Fun with Photography Featuring Lightroom 2 by Dawn
Homeschool Burnout – Rising from the Ashes by Dawn and Sprittibee
Incentives for Physical Fitness by Sallie Anderson
Letting Go of Teaching by Lee Binz
Love Hate Relationship with Physical Education by Carletta Sanders
Narration: Simple, Easy, and Exciting by Leslie Valeska
On the Rocks? by Jamie Worley
Raise Your Hands! by Lori MacMath
They Learn From You First by Belinda Bullard
To Love, Honor, and Vacuum: It’s the Little Things by Sheila Wray Gregoire
To Please My Husband by Dana Hanley
Wait! Before you Stop the Car and Get Out… 10 Burnout Busters that Can Help! by Debra Anderson
What a Day, What a Day! by Lisa Smith (Stretchmark Mama)

Upcoming Events:
1/9 Meme: Keeping Your New Year Commitments
1/10 Bible Study: Walking Among Them
1/11 Featured Homeschooler
1/12 Homeschool Twitter Chat
1/16 Video Meme: Thoughts on Inauguration Day & President
1/17 Book Club: What Happens…
1/18 Around the Web
1/23 Unit Study: Martin Luther King Jr. Birthday
1/24 Bible Study – part 2
1/25 Featured Homeschooler
1/30 Meme: Goofiest Response Ever..
2/6 Meme: Beating Those Winter Blues
2/7 How To Tutorial
2/8 Featured Homeschooler
2/9 Homeschool Twitter Chat
2/13 Video Meme: Why I Love My Spouse
2/14 Bible Study part 3
2/15 Around the Web
2/20 Unit Study: Black History Month
2/21 Book Club: Making Children…
2/22 Featured Homeschooler
2/27 Meme: Real Life Subjects
2/28 Bible Study part 4
3/6 Meme: Sharing the Resources
3/7 How To Tutorial
3/8 Featured Homeschooler
3/9 Homeschool Twitter Chat
3/13 Video Meme: Family Heritage
3/14 Bible Study part 5
3/15 Around the Web
3/20 Meme: Indoor Gardening
3/22 Featured Homeschooler
3/21 Book Club: Organizing For Life
3/27 Meme: Person of the Past
3/28 Bible Study part 6
4/4 How To Tutorial
4/8 Heart of the Matter Magazine Spring Edition

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An Unplanned Delight-Directed Homeschool Day

This is a sample of typical homeschool day for us. Our study took on a life of its own going in several unplanned directions (lessons running amuck is norm for us).

I teach using a combination of several different teaching methods (called the Heart of Wisdom approach) I have used these methods for years and rarely think of them being different methods. Just as when I am fixing a meal I rarely think of the different methods used (chopping, mixing, blending, frying), I focus on the end result. This morning was a combination of unit study, delight-directed, writing to learn, and thematic studies.

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This morning (teaching two boys, ages 6 and 7) we read The Narrated Bible “The Final Week: Monday” (pp1442-1443)

We spent a few minutes on Jesus cursing the fig tree which lead us into a discussion of fruit and fruit trees. We touched on, but did not go into detail on, the barrenness of the priests and the house of Israel.

We spent a few minutes on Jesus clearing the temple and a discussion of money changers and unfair weights and balances (something I was recently studying so I shared what I was learning).

When we got to the part where Jesus explained “Unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies it only remains a single seed.” This started my wheels turning. We have been saving watermelon seeds for planting. I was not ready to plant so we just discussed seeds, planting, vines, types of watermelons, and Jesus’ sayings about the seed. I bought them to the dining table. We discussed the seed dying, estimated the number of seeds and compared the size of a watermelon to the seed.

The boys copied “Unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies it only remains a single seed.” for typing practice (copywork).

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Meanwhile I went out to the barn to find a piece of wheat to illustrate the lesson. I usually see wheat in the hay but today couldn’t find one piece. So I went on the Internet to print a picture of wheat. The next two-plus hours turned into a science/history/language lesson on farming methods and the evolution of grinding mills.

I found and printed an image of wheat and a threshing tractor. As soon as I found the tractor, I knew I had hit pay dirt and could expand this into a delight-directed study as both boys are tractor crazy.

I used Google video search (which is quickly becoming part of our school day) to find several online videos on threshing and grinding wheat and corn. Each video is only a few minutes so we watched several.

  • Threshing wheat in India
  • Threshing at a farm museum thatching straw
  • Threshing beans with a combine harvester (patented in 1834)
  • Threshing wheat in the Middle Ages with a stick
  • A snake coughing up a hippo (OK, not related, but the boys found it fascinating!)
  • Grinding whole wheat (electric mill)
  • Threshing wheat in 12th century England
  • Water wheel powered grain mill
  • Ancient Indian wheat grinding machine
  • 1905 corn grinding machine
  • Hmong woman grinding corn with stones
  • Grinding corn with a gas engine
  • Several modern tractors and threshing combines demos

We used Google image search to find images of threshing, milling and tractors. We used Scrapbooking to Learn methods and Scrapbook Max to create scrapbook pages showing changes in threshing and milling from Bible times to modern times.

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David remembered a book on tractors and got it so we could examine the combine harvester. This lead to another Google image search and two more scrapbook pages of the steam engines and the modern combine harvester.

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robin5As the boys worked on the scrapbook pages, I read the book Johnny Appleseed aloud. I had the book out from the day before (ran out of time to read it) and had no idea it would fit with today’s Bible/history/science study.

When the boys finished the scrapbook pages they started playing the interactive game “How Things Work In Busytown.” Huckle and Lowly and other characters build a tractor, harvest wheat, mill the wheat, grind it into flour, and measure it to bake bread. I have to admit it would have been even better to grind my own wheat and bake fresh bread to wrap up the theme. But I gave my electric wheat grinder to my daughter years ago (no time to bake since I started writing. I now buy bread).

The reminder of our school day was structured with phonics and math.

This is pretty much a typical delight-directed day school day. We always start with Bible. Our phonics and math times are structured workbook time. And I have a large pile of history- and science-type books (like Johnny Appleseed) in the school area to read based on how the day goes. We were finished with school work by noon.

I’m a semi-structured homeschooler and the rest is, as they say, by the seat of my pants. Now, for those of you gasping at how I am probably missing large gaps, I can assure you I do have an overall plan and touch on all the required history and science topics (we’ve been homeschooling 20 years). We just do it a little differently. I try to encourage a love of learning by looking for a spark and fanning the flame.

You can read more about Delight-Directed learning here. Download a 10 pages (PDF) on Delight Directed Teaching here.

Check out my article on page 42 of the new flipbook edition of Heart of the Matter Magazine.

robinRobin Sampson has been homeschooling for 20 years. She and her husband Ronnie are blessed with a “yours, mine, and ours” blended family of eleven children (ages 6 to 34) and thirteen grandchildren (ages 1 to 12). She is actively teaching the two youngest children still at home. Robin is the author of the Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach and a business owner. Please visit her at www.heartofwisdom.com.

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Featured Homeschooler: Dianne

Please welcome this week’s Featured Homeschooler Dianne from Bunny Trails!

How did homeschooling come into your life?
When our oldest son was set to go to school, we looked into homeschooling, but for some reason it never came together. So we sent him to the little neighborhood school a couple blocks away. The next year, his brother followed suit. While both boys attended public school from kindergarten through 5th grade, we always knew that we didn’t want them attending middle school in the public school system. We knew people who attended one of the Christian schools here in town and anticipated sending them there when it came time for 6th grade.

As we neared the end of 5th grade for our oldest, we began looking into the cost of sending him to the private school. It became quite clear that the only way that could happen was if I went back to work. But that wasn’t what God had for us, either. At that point, we began considering alternatives, one of them being a free, computer-based charter school. That was looking rather promising – they provided the computer, printer, books, record-keeping, testing, etc. Then I attended one of their informational meetings here in town and the reality began to sink in. This was merely a public school education in my home. If I was going to homeschool my son, we wanted a curriculum that focused on God’s word as its foundation. At that point, I began seriously researching homeschool curriculum options.

I got online (of course) and did loads of research, checked out books at the library, and attended our state’s homeschool conference. I only bought passes to the vendor hall, not the entire conference, because I was only interested in getting catalogs, flyers, and information on paper. I did not want any of the representatives or workers to talk to me. I didn’t want to attend any sessions or have anyone tell me anything. I just wanted information that I could take home, look over, and make my own decision. Sometimes I’m kind of independent like that. I did use Cathy Duffy’s Top 100 Homeschool Curriculum Picks book. Her book was extremely helpful. I recommend it to anyone just starting out.

That first year, we decided to just bring home our oldest son who would be starting middle school. Our youngest finished out 5th grade at the public school. We figured it would be a good way to break into homeschooling, with just one child. But we also knew the next year we’d bring our other son home. While I didn’t have a poor relationship with my oldest, I also felt that we were at a somewhat critical fork in the road. It seemed that at this time, we could either build a stronger bond or drift apart. My prayer was that through homeschooling, and the individual time we’d have, our relationship would be strengthened. God answered that prayer in the affirmative. We had some struggles, but overall, we’re much closer than I believe we’d have been if he had been elsewhere for school.

Your blog is called Bunny Trails, how did you choose this name?
I was using KONOS and participated in their eloop. There was a lady who always seemed to have valuable and insightful information to offer the group and she had a link to a blog at the bottom of her signature. I had heard of blogs, but really knew nothing about them, so I went and checked hers out. I found it to be interesting and informative, as well as lots of fun to read. I was hooked. I somehow ended up at a blog designer’s site and began perusing blogs that she’d designed. That was where I found some more great blogs to read.

All along, I thought how cool it would be to jump in and be a blogger. But I didn’t know a single person who blogged IRL. And I didn’t have a name. Well, that’s not entirely true – my parents did name me when I was born. But I couldn’t come up with a snappy, fun, unique blog name like everyone else seemed to have. In the meantime, I started coming up with ideas that could be blog posts IF I actually had a blog. So I’d type them up and save them in a folder called My CLOG (computer log). I was a big old blogger wannabe.

That first blog I ever read? Our dear Sprittibee’s. She’s the one who hooked me way back when. And then she had a contest at her blog, to win a digital camera. I didn’t have a digital camera, but I sure wanted one. I knew that I had to get cracking on that name thing, so I could have a blog, enter the contest, and hopefully win a camera. After much pondering, I came up with Bunny Trails. While it was nothing like the other ideas, it quite aptly described my life. I don’t think I ever complete anything without venturing off on at least one bunny trail. This fact often makes me crazy. But it also causes me to recognize that God has the master plan to all my bunny trails and never loses track of me. He meets me out there on the trail and provides whatever I need for the journey at that particular moment. It’s kind of fun to go back and see what the Lord has done in my life along all those seemingly random bunny trails.

Did you notice the long and winding trail it took for me to even get to the answer? Sigh. No, I didn’t win the camera. But here’s the post that was my entry. And I was able to buy my own digital camera about 6 weeks later.

What’s your favorite curriculum?
We began with KONOS in the fall of 2005. We’ve definitely had some fun with that. One of the best units we did was our first one – pottery and sculpture. Through that, my son began his hobby of miniature clay sculpture. He’s very gifted and creates some amazing things. This is the one area of our day that I’m always asked about. “Are we doing KONOS today?” It’s the fun part — the icing on the cake, for my boys (and me).

While it’s not exactly a “curriculum,” I have also been very blessed by Robin Sampson’s Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach. Finding it was a total answer to prayer at a time when I was really struggling with feeling like God and the Bible weren’t as integral to our days as I wanted. I was also trying to reconcile homeschooling methods; structured, unstructured, delight-centered learning, scope and sequence perspective. It was driving me crazy. I poured out my heart to God about my frustrations and the very next day, He took me to her site. As I began to read the sample pages from her book, it was exactly what I needed.

Have you experienced any homeschooling negativity and if so, how did you respond?
Not really. I think most everyone has either been supportive or neutral. The only time I felt like people weren’t in agreement with me was when I told the teachers at the public school the boys had attended. They weren’t openly negative, but I just got the sense that they weren’t on board with it. Not that I didn’t care about them, but it wasn’t as if their opinions were going to change our direction. I think there was only one teacher who was encouraging about our path. When I come across people who aren’t familiar with homeschool, they just tend to ask a lot of questions.

How has homeschooling changed your life?
I think one big area of my life where God has used homeschool is to get my eyes off of me. I can be so self-absorbed and focused upon my own wants and needs. Other times, I just get distracted (must’ve gone down some bunny trail), and forget to come back to my kids. With homeschool, He calls me back to the boys over and over again. There are things in life that I can’t do right now, but that’s okay. He reminds me that it’s a season. And this season of my life right now is ministering to my kids. At 14 (almost 15) and 13, I don’t have a lot of years left to influence their lives (as much as I can now). It’s so easy for me to fall off track, but He’s faithful to bring me back and get my eyes where they need to be. Since we started this journey three years ago, I’ve struggled with wishing I’d have homeschooled from the beginning. But I have to remember that it wasn’t what the Lord had for our family at that time. He’s calling me to make the most of what time I do have with them.

Congratulations on being married 22 years! What’s the secret?
God. I can’t say where we’d be without Him, because I really don’t know (nor do I wish to!). Although He was not a part of our lives (from our perspective) during the first part of our marriage, He’s been a very integral part for a long time now. I also have the sweetest, most considerate, thoughtful, supportive, and understanding husband. That definitely helps! We’ve always been good friends. Back when we dated, I always knew that he’d be a great friend, even if we weren’t together. Praise God that we are, because now I have my best friend and an awesome husband. We’ve had our share of life struggles throughout the 22 years, but the amazing thing is that our marriage has always been strong and intact.

What is the one thing that you couldn’t live without?
Only one thing?!?! I’m sorry, but I can’t really answer such a generic question. God is at the top of the list, in terms of life. Of course, my husband and boys. But they’re not things. Neither is God. My Bible is certainly of great value to me. Ranks right up there with God, naturally. After that? The camera. I’m a picture-taking junkie. Ask my boys. They totally know that when I pull over, seemingly randomly, I must need to take a shot of something.

Oh that’s right, this is a homeschool interview. That’s probably more what you were looking for. My laptop and my brain-in-a-binder. I know – still not one thing. I’m not good at staying in the box. But those are the tools that are most used by me in homeschooling.

What one lesson or piece of advice would you share with other homeschoolers?
To love and enjoy your children. Study them and figure out what makes them tick, what they’re interested in, and what their gifts are. Help them to pursue those areas that appeal to them. Don’t stress out trying to make everything perfect. God will take our meager offerings and bless them. He loves our kids more than we do and will work through us and also in spite of us. And pray about everything; with your kids and on your own. The Lord has a plan and our job is to get on board with Him. He’s willing to provide bountiful wisdom. But we have to ask (James 1:5 ).

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Nikowa is a 2nd year homeschooling mom to two boys. (Ages 8 and 5) With her “learning never ends” philosophy, they have an eclectic year-round approach to learning. When she’s not teaching, she enjoys photography, organizing, cooking, reading, and knitting. She is a #1 LOST fan and watches UGA football too! (Go Dawgs!) You can visit Nikowa at Knowledge House Academy.

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